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Female Fashion Advice Pat12 1 month ago 97%
What stores (in the US or Canada) sell pretty/classic dresses like the below?

The above dress is from a UK store called Apricot. Similar stores might be Oasis.

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    2 months ago 100%

    Seems like a basic safety/planning kind of question since you’d be in the middle of a body of water

    I think so, too. Swimming with a life jacket in my opinion is more difficult than swimming without one. However, I would think that treading water is more difficult than swimming with a life jacket so maybe if swimming with a life jacket is the expectation, then that's ok.

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    Backing it up one step further, a common beginner mistake is to decide on a destination irrespective of the wind direction. This sometimes makes sailing more difficult than it needs to be and can result in the unnecessary torturing of guests as the captain stubbornly pounds into wind and wave to achieve a destination not superior to other options that would provide a more congenial travel experience.

    this is really helpful, thank you!

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    What is the implication when you ask if someone can swim?

    If you want to take someone sailing on a boat and you ask them if they can swim, what exactly are you asking? Everyone can float if they have a life jacket right? My understanding is that someone is being asked if they can take care of themselves and/or tread water until they are rescued and/or if they are a strong swimmer, but I could be wrong.

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    Sailing Pat12 2 months ago 100%
    Process of sailing - please help me to confirm my understanding

    I've recently learnt to sail but when I'm on the water, all of my theory goes out of my head. Can someone please explain the steps of sailing or confirm what I've written below? 1) check the wind direction 2) think of where I want to navigate to and point the boat relative to the wind. 3) think of the points of sail. For the boat's position relative to the wind, change the main sail to the respective point of sail and the wind will catch the sail. 4) use the main sheet to keep the sail in the "point of sail" direction that the wind should be in. 5) make very small movements to keep the boat going straight towards my target 6) once i'm going straight, check the sail if it's luffing periodically and trim the sail if necessary when tacking, 1) use the tiller to turn the boat around, either pull it fully towards or away from me 2) once the boat is turned around, pull the tiller so that it's now straight and you can let the tiller handle lay on the side of the boat 3) switch sides as usual thank you!

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    nyc New York City What salary should I ask for? Junior finance role. They are offering $65/year in NYC.
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    2 months ago 100%

    hmm maybe there is health insurance but it wasnt mentioned during the initial call. i ask for compensation of 90-100K, said it was negotiable and expect it will be negotiated down, at least it wont be 65K.

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    2 months ago 100%

    Not sure what that means but yeah, no health plan or stock options. There's a 401K with some matching. It's just the salary with the bonus.

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    2 months ago 100%

    10% annual and prorated. no other compensation. just salary and up to 10% bonus. no gym membership or housing etc mentioned.

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    2 months ago 100%

    bonus is up to 10%

    i can deal with work-related stress but if i have to worry about paying bills, that's what i completely want to avoid.

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    New York City Pat12 2 months ago 88%
    What salary should I ask for? Junior finance role. They are offering $65/year in NYC.

    I am interviewing with a company where they are offering $65K/year in NYC for an analyst (junior level) role. The senior analyst position is $85K/year. These salaries seem extremely low for NYC (although I'm not from NYC or even the US). What would be an appropriate salary to ask for for a junior analyst role? It involves financial modelling. I want this kind of job but I also want to be able to live without too much stress.

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    baking Pat12 4 months ago 100%
    can you make frangipane dessert a day in advance or should it be made in advance?

    mother's day tomorrow ;wondering if it's possible to make the dessert in advance because it's easier when they're out of the house so it's a secret. thanks!

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    Tip Of My Tongue Pat12 5 months ago 91%
    [TOMT][German weapon] Name of an old German weapon. Possibly medieval. The handle I believe could be unscrewed and could be used as a club during close combat.

    this was a weapon that's possibly used in medieval times (definitely long before 20th century). The main part may have been a sword and the hilt could be unscrewed or somehow used as a club. Thanks!

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    New York City Pat12 5 months ago 100%
    Who are the food vendors at dragonfest this year? Are there any must-trys?

    I am from HK and have travelled around Taiwan, etc so it would be nice to find some dishes that are close to home

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    Female Fashion Advice Pat12 5 months ago 96%
    Is this type of dress too much for an Andrea Bocelli concert? Smaller US city and dress is navy not black

    Would this type of dress in navy blue be too much to attend an Andrea Bocelli concert?

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    Healthy Food Pat12 6 months ago 100%
    Ideas for low calorie meals to maintain weight (cannot exercise)

    I was recently in an accident and cannot exercise; particularly, I cannot put weight on my feet or lay my feet on the ground. Consequently, I have to maintain my weight purely through diet. I typically aim for around 1300 calories/day. So far I have: - breakfast: fried egg/egg white on toast with a glass of water (about 200 cals) - lunch: chicken breast, small piece of bread, with a large spinach salad (about 300 cals) - afternoon snack ? - dinner ? Thank you.

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    6 months ago 100%

    Ignoring the fact that gender dysphoria is a real thing whereas hysteria isn’t,

    I'm not sure how you can make this your premise; back then hysteria was very much "a real thing". Also one could say that doctors have manipulated people undergoing surgery now into giving consent

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    I got downvoted recently for saying "If you’re friends with someone, wouldn’t you want to know if they’re also friends with someone problematic?" and "I would definitely want to know if my friends were close with people who’d been in prison."

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    Though to an extent, the lack of community, especially amongst children is due to the complete lack of independence and they have to depend on their parents to drive them everywhere.

    where do you live that there's not even a playground or a residential street within walking distance of your home?

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    Wish it'd be acceptable for people to call out reps/senators for "doing the bidding" of other countries too

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    When I'm feeling blue about something for a while, I do try to exercise daily. I don't know whether or not endorphins make a difference for me but I do not that I feel more awake after exercising. I like the feeling that I accomplished something for that day and it keeps my routine regular. The alternative that I can spend a lot of time thinking about something troubling me and I'm not productive.

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    I wouldn't use "never get to experience" but i would say it's much harder to have that real sense of community that we easily found in the 90s, early 2000s, etc.

    People are more connected to others but still more isolated from others. We were less connected to other people back then so people made a real effort to come up with fun activities and bond together. For kids, it's the lack of just playing outside in the neighbourhood with friends. For adults, it's the lack of third places and community/religious events.

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    6 months ago 100%

    Orr would defend his Communist friends to his Fascist freinds and he would defend his Fascist friends to his Communist friends. No one ever defended Orr because he was too weird.

    yes this is basically what I mean

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    6 months ago 100%

    I know people who were Christians in Afghanistan, who were outed to the government (Taliban). The word they use is “spy”. It may not be the normal, English use of the word, but it’s the word that real-life people who have been on the receiving end of the betrayal use.

    This is basically what i mean; someone who you can't fully trust about their allegiance.

    That is really awful what happened to those people; are they ok now?

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    6 months ago 100%

    Would you rather he, as a non-government affiliated citizen, pick a side? War is stupid. Communication is great. Maybe this is naive of me, but I think the world would be better, and maybe require less war, if everyone had equal access to communication.

    I recently read about Ted Hall who shared nuclear secrets with the Soviet Union because he thought everyone should have equal access to nuclear weapons and this would prevent another world war.

    Your logic is similar and it's not a good thing.

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    6 months ago 100%

    That is such a heads-up for me in terms of making assumptions based on my own privilege, and I apologise for doing that here. I’m very lucky to be able to discuss politics without fear.

    it's ok, everyone has their own problems

    my wording was maybe not clear

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    6 months ago 100%

    Not a good way to make them see reason. I know it’s hypothetical but if you’re friends shouldn’t you put in some effort to help instead of just drop them?

    you're planning to spend time debating with a ziganwu? or if you're western, a staunch far-left or far-right supporter or someone with very racist views?

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    6 months ago 100%

    no, it's normal to have a variety of friends

    i'm talking about people with loyalty to a specific ideology and they are not honest about who they are in contact with, i live in asia in an area where you can get in a lot of trouble if you support democracy and if you share such information with the wrong person you can get in a lot of trouble

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    6 months ago 100%

    I heard them called “bats” because they flap around between different groups and are associated with darkness thus “shady”!

    hahahahah

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    6 months ago 75%

    In any case, political crimes (“democracy supporter”) are just more justification to not care, imo.

    you are saying you want people to not care about who they share information with when they live under a state that will arrest you for many more reasons than someone in the west would expect?

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    Hmm I think it's fine if someone is a social butterfly, they don't have bad intentions etc. I am talking about someone who seems like you can trust them but actually they have other loyalties, I live in a place where people get arrested for supporting democracy for example

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    6 months ago 54%

    I am not really understanding this, anyway I am looking for a word for someone who will be friends with pro-govt and pro-democracy people and you can't trust a person like this or you will get arrested

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    6 months ago 62%

    I live in Asia, if you tell the wrong person you are a democracy supporter you can get arrested or on a watch list

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    6 months ago 9%

    I’ve had friends that were friends with ex-cons, etc.

    you do you but I would definitely want to know if my friends were close with people who'd been in prison. If I worked in a field where they do background checks i would absolutely need to know if my friends were friends with those in prison. There's a difference between dictating who people are friends with and knowing who people you give information to are close with.

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    6 months ago 7%

    If you're friends with someone, wouldn't you want to know if they're also friends with someone problematic?

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    6 months ago 27%

    disingenuous

    disingenuous could definitely be it; they're not straightforward about their intentions.

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    They keep their connections hidden; it is the other groups who when asked state that they are friendly with this person.

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    No Stupid Questions Pat12 6 months ago 88%
    What is the word for someone who is friends with different groups but doesn't have loyalty to any one group?

    The closest word I can think of is a sycophant but that's too strong word and not exactly what I'm looking for. The word I'm thinking of has negative connotations and it's for someone who is friends with different groups but only at a superficial level and isn't necessarily honest about who all they're friends with. This person would be seen as untrustworthy.

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    Cooking Pat12 6 months ago 100%
    How can I make (east) asian food healthy?

    many east asian dishes included some ready made sauce like 豆瓣酱 or 柱侯酱 in chinese cuisines or 고추장 in korean cuisine. These sauces make our dishes delicious but unfortunately they are very high in salt and/or sugars. Is there some way to make the dishes with these sauces from scratch or without such high salt/sugar? We often have to add sugar in the dish in addition to the sauces. Thanks. I'm sure this is a similar problem in other cuisines but my question is just about east asian cuisines. edit: i'm referring to homemade food, not restaurant food.

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    Canada Pat12 6 months ago 93%
    Are there any organizations to sponsor a family in Canada (microfinance for Canadians, not immigration)

    There are organizations like Save a Family Plan where you can sponsor a family who is living in poverty overseas and help give them funds for education etc. Are there any organizations like this for Canadian families? I tried searching online but it kept showing results for how to sponsor one's family to come to Canada (like to immigrate). Thanks. I'm aware of the perils of microcredit so i'd rather not get involved with something where the person might have extortionate interest rates or there's a loan to be paid, i am talking about microfinance where there is money directly given to the family in need and it is used to help make the family self sufficient.

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    Spanish Pat12 6 months ago 80%
    The use of plural instead of tu in latin american spanish?

    When i was very young and learning beginner spanish, i thought it was taught that in some parts of latin america, they use some plural form instead of tu when speaking. Is this correct or am I misremembering?

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    Cooking Pat12 6 months ago 95%
    [Discussion] What are some of the nuances of cooking from world cuisines?

    For example, pad thai should be balanced between sweet, sour, and salty. Indian dishes don't have meat as the feature in a dish but rather it's added for some texture; the dish itself is the feature. Hunan cooking is dry and hot and often sour and differs from Sichuan cooking which it's often compared against. Generally speaking in Asian cuisines, if you don't cook the spices exactly correctly, it will change the taste of the dish quite a bit. As a francophone, i can say that french-based cooking is an art as the ingredients are traditional basics that are in season. The food should be delicate or have a cut (e.g. a creamy cheese should have something acidic to cut it like a nice wine). It is the combination of the techniques (method of cutting ingredients like julienne style or method of cooking like flambee, saute, etc.) to create the dish.

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    What is the difference between Self-Portrait and Bronx and Banco?

    Recently found Bronx and Banco and it looks very similar to Self-Portrait. Is the quality different?

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    Houston Pat12 6 months ago 100%
    Which ski club would you recommend for a young 20-something year old?

    Looking for a ski club for someone; I saw online that there were a few different clubs. The person is a relatively advanced skier but more importantly it would be nice to have other people their age to ski with regardless of skill. They are a few years out of college so ideally a ski club where there are many other people in their 20s. Thank you.

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    No Stupid Questions Pat12 7 months ago 82%
    Can someone go swimming if they are recovering from torn ligaments in the foot?

    I got into a mild accident last week; after being checked out, i don't have anything broken but i have torn ligaments in one of my feet. My recovery has mostly been resting my foot and not putting pressure on; i'm not allowed to go for a walk. Would I be able to go swimming? This way I can keep my foot from being stiff but i can do some exercise.

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    Female Fashion Advice Pat12 7 months ago 93%
    What shorts are you wearing this summer?

    I'm obsessed with tailored high waisted shorts (example: https://endlessrose.com/products/copy-of-tailored-shorts) and dolfin shorts for every day and after swimming

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    305 Miami Pat12 7 months ago 60%
    Where can I find the most authentic home-style ceviche (hole in the wall type place)?

    I've been to suviche before for ceviche but i'd like to try somewhere that's authentic like a hole in the wall place where peruvians would go for ceviche. I can speak intermediate spanish so it's all good if they don't speak english. Thanks! Edit: thanks! I went to Aromas del Peru and it was really delicious. Went to Farolito for dinner and it was incredible. I would recommend that place 11/10.

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    AskACanadian Pat12 7 months ago 87%
    Where to buy juniper berries? Or lingonberries?

    Looking to make a bison steak and can't seem to find juniper berries or any other fresh/sour berry to pair. Thanks.

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    aviation Pat12 8 months ago 84%
    How safe is it to be your own pilot?

    I have a few friends who have their own pilots license (private pilot i assume). How safe is it to fly your own plane? I have acrophobia so learning how to fly is not high on my list but would like to know about how safe it is to assuage some fears. To be it seems scary because if something goes wrong, you wouldn't be the only person getting hurt (as would be the case for scuba diving or skiing) but you might also risk hurtings others like your plane crashing out of control. edit: i'm asking on the off chance i feel like one day getting a private pilots license like my friends. i'm not planning on flying with the friends anytime soon; they live on the other side of the world.

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    Unresolved Mysteries Pat12 8 months ago 78%
    Have you seen Austin Patchke? The 22 year old who was 6'8" and 275 lbs disappeared after leaving his place of work in 2022.

    [Austin Carlos Patchke](https://charleyproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/patchke_austin5.jpg) was born 29 Nov 1999. He'd be 24 now. He was last seen in the area of Old St. Augustine Road in Jacksonville, Florida on 16 Nov 2022. He'd been working at the 7/11 store there. He asked his boss for a cash advance which was refused; he left (walked out) and has never been heard from since. He was wearing a grey polo shirt with "7-Eleven" embroidered on it, dark long sleeves under it, and black pants and possibly carrying a pink bag and black Nike shoes. Detectives didn't discover any evidence of foul play and he was not reported to have any mental/physical disabilities. His father reported him missing; he'd last heard from him 2 days earlier. In Nov 2021 he had been arrested for drug posession/DUI and in Feb 2022 for driving under suspended license/battery. However, he had not been arrested/charged since that time and was able to obtain employment. [This](https://charleyproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/patchke_austin3.jpg) is a photo of him at 21 years old and [this](https://charleyproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/patchke_austin.jpg) is a photo of him at 22 years old. He may resemble any of these photos.

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    Ask Lemmy Pat12 8 months ago 96%
    What is the best option to provide for people who are homeless in the cold?

    It's going to be very cold over the next few days in my area and I'd like to buy something for the people who are homeless, particularly ones who won't be in a shelter. For budgeting, there is one shelter in my area for adults and one for children/teenagers. I don't know how many people would not have shelter but in the past, I have planned for 40 people when providing food for people in a shelter. My budget is about $200 USD; what would be the most useful? thermal blankets? hot food? Edit: thanks to all who responded. I called the shelter and the most needed items are (1) sleeping bags (2) very warm gloves to prevent frostbite (3) boots

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    Female Fashion Advice Pat12 8 months ago 95%
    How do you tuck a shirt into high waisted trousers/skirt without looking bulky?

    title says it all. I have a leather midi skirt which i would like to wear with a blouse but tucking in the shirt makes the skirt look bulky.

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    Personal Finance Pat12 9 months ago 94%
    Credit score dropped for seemingly no reason

    I moved countries a few years ago and am building up my credit score from scratch. I'm cognizant of good practices to build up my credit score like paying my credit card on time. My credit score dropped 10 points in the last month but I don't know why. I've increased my spending on my card because of Christmas and travelling but make the payments right away (typically same day) so that there is not a large balance on my card at the end of the month. The total spending for the month is less than 30% of my credit card limit. I don't have any other form of credit like loans. Any suggestions why there was a drop?

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    Geschichte Pat12 9 months ago 80%
    Ich bin auf der Suche nach einem motivierenden Zitat für meinen Freund, der seinen Job verloren hat

    idealerweise von einem deutschen Militärgeneral oder einer ähnlichen Person (von Moltke, etc.) Danke!

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    Ask Men Pat12 9 months ago 100%
    If you were to lose your job and feeling down, what would you like from a friend to cheer you up?

    pizza? flowers? a card? Also, what's the phrase in english for support and encouragement to keep going when someone is going through a difficult time? In chinese say "加油" (literally: add oil ie. add fuel to keep going) or in french we say "courage", don't know what the phrase is in english.

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    Female Fashion Advice Pat12 9 months ago 95%
    What kind of tops or blouses would you recommend for a recent widow?

    What style of blouse would you recommend for a recent widow? Nothing too bright in colour and preferably high neck. Looking for some everyday tops and sweaters recommendations. edit: it's not me but a relative that lost their spouse but thank you for the nice messages

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    Jobs Pat12 10 months ago 80%
    New linkedin requirements? 200 character limit for personalized invites and a message saying "x remaining personalized invites this month"?

    Is anyone else seeing this message? It was 300 characters before and now it's 200, it's incredibly difficult to write a message with so few characters.

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    A Boring Dystopia Pat12 11 months ago 98%
    A country of roommates

    article: https://www.theglobeandmail.com/investing/personal-finance/household-finances/article-in-10-years-will-canada-be-a-country-of-roommates/

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    Catholicism Pat12 11 months ago 80%
    Jerusalem Catholic Patriarch offers to be exchanged for Gaza hostages www.reuters.com
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    Canada Pat12 12 months ago 94%
    Vancouver lab owner named in Chinese fentanyl syndicate by U.S. Government, skirted Canadian laws www.thebureau.news

    The Biden administration’s sweeping attack on global fentanyl trafficking syndicates emanating from Chinese factories has also implicated Canada’s central involvement, singling out a Vancouver drug lab owner, whose realtor wife was stabbed to death in 2022, after the couple evaded a British Columbia civil forfeiture case that saw seizures of fentanyl, cocaine, chemical precursors, and a drug press, along with their mountainside mansion and luxury vehicles. On Tuesday, U.S. Attorney General Merrick Garland announced numerous indictments and Treasury Department sanctions against 28 people and companies, including eight chemical companies in China, their executives and alleged Chinese transnational drug-trafficking bosses. The indictments charge a web of chemical factories across China, from Wuhan to Anhui and Hubei and Jiangsu, and reveal how the traffickers running these companies have sold fentanyl precursors to undercover D.E.A. agents requesting shipments into Mexican drug labs. While the Sinaloa Cartel is a major distributor for Chinese fentanyl ravaging American communities and causing tens of thousands of deaths annually, the only major targets outside mainland China named in the D.E.A.’s new investigations are Vancouver-area convict Bahman Djebelibak, 41, and his Port Coquitlam-based lab and chemical distribution facilities. “Fentanyl is the deadliest drug threat the United States has ever faced,” Garland said at a press conference in Washington, billed as a “message on behalf of the U.S. government” to China and anyone else involved in “trafficking of fentanyl at every stage and in every part of the world.” “We know that this network includes the cartels’ leaders, their drug traffickers, their money launderers, their clandestine lab operators, their security forces, their weapons suppliers, and their chemical suppliers,” Garland continued. “And we know that this global fentanyl supply chain, which ends with the deaths of Americans, often starts with chemical companies in China.” One of the Chinese companies sanctioned by the Treasury Department, Jinhu Minsheng Pharmaceutical Machinery, has allegedly been selling pill press machines used to manufacture counterfeit oxycodone, case records say. “A major customer of Jinhu Minsheng’s is Western Canada-based Valerian Labs, Inc., which is led by Canadian national Bahman Djebelibak,” documents cited by Garland say. The records allege Djebelibak, aka Bobby Shah, is a major actor in Chinese fentanyl syndicate networks, and he is accountable for “the international proliferation of illicit drugs or their means of production.” The U.S. government is seeking Djebelibak’s arrest and the charges have not been proven yet in court, documents say. These records charge that Djebelibak and his Port Coquitlam-based lab, also known as Hollywood Vape Labs, sought to procure “2,000 liters of chloroform, 800 liters of dichloromethane, and 200 kg of iodine, substances used in the production of fentanyl, heroin, and methamphetamine.” The records add, “notably, Valerian Labs Distribution Corp. has imported chemicals from Hebei Guanlang [another] member of the Syndicate targeted.” The Bureau’s review of Canadian legal records finds that Djebelibak and his deceased wife, Ramina Shah, were caught up in March 2018 federal police raids of Valerian Labs and the couple’s suburban-Vancouver mansion, which led to a failed B.C. civil forfeiture action. The case was dismissed in 2021 after B.C. provincial Judge David St. Pierre found police searches had violated the couple’s Charter rights. There is no indication, however, that St. Pierre balanced his decision by considering the stunning killing power of the fentanyl, chemical precursors and lab equipment allegedly discovered by police, as they executed search warrants stemming from a financial fraud probe against Djebelibak. At the couple’s $2.9 million mountainside mansion in Maple Ridge, officers seized a Land Rover, a Porsche and a 2006 Pontiac G6, fraudulently registered to one of Djebelibak’s associates, who was involved in Djebelibak’s scheme of trading cash and luxury items for cheques, Canadian court records say. In a hidden compartment of the Pontiac, officers found about two kilograms of fentanyl, a one-kilo brick of cocaine, and chemicals used to cut cocaine for street dealing. Officers also found axes in Djebelibak’s mansion, one of which was kept in the couple’s bedroom. During searches of the mansion and Valerian Labs, officers also discovered pieces of gold and silver jewellery and suspected drug-trafficking paraphernalia, including “score sheets” and cellphones, a hydraulic press covered in drug residue, blank cheques and bank cards in the names of other people, a credit card machine and printer, and money transfer papers. Police also found a “5-gallon drum of sodium borohydride, which can be used as a cutting agent for controlled substances such as ecstasy, located behind stacks of containers at Hollywood Vape Labs,” B.C. civil forfeiture records say. The provincial judge — in hindsight perhaps foolishly — gave the benefit of the doubt to the couple, on how they earned a living. He discounted evidence that officers executing search warrants found tax returns indicating the couple only claimed about $20,000 each in annual income, which could not possibly explain how they afforded luxury assets, including a mansion, Range Rover, Porsche. The judge, apparently referring to Hollywood Vape Labs and Valerian Labs, explained: “It was known that Mr. and Mrs. Shah owned or co-owned several private (apparently legitimate) business enterprises.” In January 2022, a year after the civil forfeiture case was dropped, Shah was found stabbed to death in a parkade in Coquitlam, not far from Valerian Labs. Her contact appears to be listed on the website of Hollywood Vape Labs — evidently still active — which declares itself a “proudly Canadian” business, founded in 2015. At the time of her murder, Ramina Shah was working in real estate. Police say they are continuing to investigate her murder. Djebelibak ’s B.C. court records indicate he has been convicted for using counterfeit money. The Vancouver Sun — reporting on Ramina Shah’s case — said her husband was acquitted in a 2002 stabbing in Kelowna after a judge said it was impossible to determine who was holding the knife when the other man was injured. A request for comment on the U.S. government allegations against Valerian and Djebelibak was not immediately answered on Wednesday. “These eight cases are the result of DEA’s efforts to attack the fentanyl supply chain where it starts — in China,” Drug Enforcement Administration head Anne Milgram said Tuesday, at the Garland press conference. “Chinese chemical companies are fueling the fentanyl crisis in the United States by sending fentanyl precursors, fentanyl analogues … into our country and into Mexico. DEA will not stop until we defeat this threat.”

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    languagelearning Pat12 12 months ago 100%
    how do you learn a language using music/videos?

    we all know it's popular to use music and videos to learn a language. do you start off by having some intermediate knowledge of a language before you start using music/videos to learn and then write down any new terms? what is your process? I am trying to use videos to learn cantonese but there is a lot I am struggling to understand.

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    Unresolved Mysteries Pat12 12 months ago 97%
    Can you help to identify New York John Doe (November 2021)? While he was sleeping, he was set on fire. He had severe burns over more than 75% of his body, and died 13 days later.

    **He was 25-40 years old. A white man and 5'9". He weighted 193 lbs. He had hazel eyes. He had previous cranial surgery. ** He was found on November 18, 2021 and brought to hospital. He was sleeping in the stairwell of the Samuel Gompers Houses when a man set fire to his pants leg. A picture of him is attached here. The full story of what happened is found in the link below but it is a disgusting/traumatic story so I would not advise reading. His photo and measurements should hopefully be sufficient to identify him. https://nypost.com/2021/11/20/video-shows-homeless-man-being-torched-to-death-in-nyc-stairwell/ If you have information, you can contact (212) 447-2030 (Office of Chief Medical Examiner NYC) ; his case number is M21-37507.

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