49ers San Francisco 49ers Game Thread: New York Jets (0-0) at San Francisco 49ers (0-0)
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 1 week ago 100%

    I think they are covering him too thick but look at how Jennings has stepped up. Good stuff

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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 1 week ago 100%

    That makes sense. Darnold could certainly have some great play left in him if the rest of the offense is good.

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  • 49ers San Francisco 49ers Game Thread: New York Jets (0-0) at San Francisco 49ers (0-0)
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 1 week ago 100%

    It’s pretty amazing. If we can alternate between Mason, CMC and BCB we might have something pretty special this year. Need CMC to get healthy…

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  • 49ers San Francisco 49ers Game Thread: New York Jets (0-0) at San Francisco 49ers (0-0)
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 1 week ago 100%

    Well you guys creamed the Giants but that is a puzzling move to trade Cousins for Sam Darnold who was a backup QB. I guess they are basically committed to a building year? But look what happened to the 9ers when Trey Lance and Jimmy G got injured and we were stuck with what looked like a building year…a nice young man called Purdy emerged.

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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 1 week ago 100%

    I’ve been watching WNBA all off season and their officiating is horrible and the reviews take way too long. NFL refs seem like geniuses in comparison.

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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 1 week ago 100%

    Great drive aside from stupid penalties on our part that almost ruined it

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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 1 week ago 100%

    I want to be mad at the refs but those calls against McKivitz and Samuel did look like holding. I wasn’t watching the one that just happened but damn too many offensive flags

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    San Francisco 49ers mysoulishome 3 weeks ago 75%
    The contract negotiation song and dance makes me just want to watch other sports instead

    I’m naive but I just like the idea of having a team that stays a team and competes, less like a business and more like a high school where all of the players are FROM THERE and have pride in the team, the city and the fans. The Olympics is fun because you don’t see Simone Biles negotiating for more money to go compete for China or Russia. We are the USA. We are the 49ers. The idea of Aiyuk playing here and not wanting to just sucks. Fuck off. The business part of this is a boner killer and takes away the magic.

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    science science Moon Was Once A Fiery Ball Of Molten Rock: ISRO Confirms In New Study
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 4 weeks ago 50%

    Your mom sure was. Hawt

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy Guys, what's a toxic trait other guys sometimes have
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 1 month ago 98%

    Guy at work always starts saying sexist shit when no other women are around, maybe wanting to built camaraderie or something? Toxic masculinity is a myth. Women all want the bad boys. No thanks we can avoid the 1:1 convos from now on.

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  • chatgpt ChatGPT OpenAI starts rolling out its Her-like voice mode for ChatGPT - The Verge
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 2 months ago 100%

    The more they talk about putting limits on what it can do and refuse certain requests the less I feel excited about trying it. Like ooh this technology can do ANYTHING but…not that. Not that either. Nope not that.

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  • reddit Reddit Perma banned for 'inciting violence' with no previous strikes on 12 year old account
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 3 months ago 95%

    Banned from Reddit site wide ? That’s crazy

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  • coolguides Cool Guides A cool guide for job interviews
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 3 months ago 100%

    This is all they ask. Google the star method.

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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 3 months ago 66%

    Yes, but it you want to do well at an interview this is the shit they will ask

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  • movies movies ‘Jurassic World 4’ Set to Shoot in Thailand, Malta and U.K.
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 3 months ago 100%

    I really enjoyed 2 (The Lost World: Jurassic Park) when it came out in 1997. Not as tight as 1 (script etc) but it was still directed by Spielberg and took took the special effects a little further.

    3 wasn’t directed by Spielberg and was awful in my opinion. I hated it.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy For the dudes here... What "girl" song you secretly love?
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 3 months ago 100%

    Going back a few years I loved 90s Mariah Carey and Jewel. Fiona Apple’s debut album was instrumental in my life. Nowadays, I am not a super fan or anything but I enjoy and have very high opinions of T Swift, Gaga, Beyoncé and many other.

    My daughter recently introduced me to Chappell Roan and damn she’s amazing.

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  • apple Apple [512Pixels] Siri’s AI Era Arriving Soon
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 4 months ago 100%

    Google’s AI is really horrible lately. I thought it seemed useful a few months ago and liked that I could ask for up to the minute information that it could pull from the internet…football scores, weather in Costa Rica on different coasts at different times of years. It seemed to pull good info from Reddit or other forum discussions (not just blog spam but things people actually seem to like. Then sometimes it wouldn’t know what day it is. Now it is worse than just google searching what you want. What are the best deals on smart universal remotes? It lists sofabaton and then an RCA and GE remote that aren’t smart but they are promoted on Walmarts website. Then it suggests what to SEARCH. removed…you search.

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  • movies movies Bill Skarsgård not happy with The Crow's ending
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 4 months ago 100%

    Sounds like they leave the end somewhat vague which is ridiculous. He and his lover die, he comes back for revenge and when he gets it his reward is rejoining her in death where they are together. It’s perfect. What would a sequel be…they kill his dog like John Wick?

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  • apple_enthusiast Apple CARROT Weather Gains Updated Design With Garden Layout and More
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 4 months ago 100%

    It’s one guy, Brian, not a company haha. Kind of like Apollo. I’ve followed him since his first app Carrot To-Do which shamed you into completing tasks. Still wish he’d update that one, it was fun.

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  • movies movies Cannes crowd boos Francis Ford Coppola’s Megalopolis
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 4 months ago 100%

    I typically agree with the aggregate score on Rotten Tomatoes for about 85% of movies. Even when I don’t want to haha.

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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 4 months ago 100%

    It’s at 47% now yikes. Seems like most critics saying it’s horrible, a few saying it has some redeeming qualities, and some positive reviews that appear to be fake.

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy People under 30, do you know what a Rocky Montage is?
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 5 months ago 100%

    Of course it’s that thing in Rocky Horror where the camera flashes from bedroom to bedroom in Frank’s sex castle and everybody is singing and fucking, then Janet realizes it’s NOT Brad in her bed

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  • reddit Reddit Cannot view posts on reddit in browser from search.
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 5 months ago 100%

    Absolutely. Often there are no fucking useful search results on Google at all besides Reddit threads…

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What's a common feature of video games we could really use in real life?
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 5 months ago 100%

    Difficulty setting. I play on easy mode and DGAF what anyone thinks because my time is precious and I’m playing for fun. I decide what’s fun.

    Creative/cheat mode…let me just pause, build myself a fantastic 10 story house… Open inventory and spawn a wife, 3 kids, a dog and 2 billion dollars in my pocket. Oh no, does that mean I can't get achievements because I cheated? Oh well.

    Steal a car, lose the cops and it’s mine now. No consequences.

    Important story moments of your life play as cutscenes which you have no control over…so you can’t mess it up and know you’re exactly where you should be. This would be peaceful.

    Hints & tutorials.

    Play as a different character.

    Choose your appearance instantly -gender, body shape, skin/eye/hair color, size of nose/ears/eyebrows, clothes, accessories

    Things you buy spawn instantly wherever you are

    Change tattoos instantly, including removing

    Closed captioning for all dialogue and other sounds

    Increase skills simply by grinding, even for things like skateboarding, singing, playing music, acrobatics etc that require raw talent and YEARS of training/practice

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  • apple Apple [MacRumors] Jony Ive and OpenAI's Sam Altman Seeking Funding for Personal AI Device
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 66%

    Could be very interesting. It’s so strange to me with current advancements in AI that Siri, Alexa and Google Assistant are all dumb as shit. When will we get a device that is actually smart?

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  • mildlyinteresting Mildly Interesting Two 2000's tech things I'm shocked still exist
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 100%

    How much was it as opposed to just buying on Amazon?

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  • nottheonion Not The Onion 7-Eleven plans to sell hot dog-flavored sparkling water
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 100%

    Fuck

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    Mildly Interesting mysoulishome 6 months ago 93%
    Two 2000's tech things I'm shocked still exist

    1. PCMag - I used to physically walk into a store and buy that magazine to read about computers…before the internet was so clean and fast it made for a better news and media experience. I’m pretty sure PCMag has been around since they included AOL cds with an isssue. 2. Woot! Lol…why? Woot was always stupid. The deals were never good. There is no need for it. Both of these give me a lot of nostalgia for the early 2000’s. Playing games on Yahoo messenger. GameCube, PS2, OG Xbox. Shocked they still exist, let alone have the funds to be running Facebook ads.

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    reddit Reddit After eight years, i resigned as a moderator of my community
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    I don’t know that anything will be the same because it took so long for everyone to gather there and make 100,000 thriving communities about every random little thing from rare diseases to Pokémon made from toilet paper tubes, sexy John Oliver, kids getting hit on the head. If got interested in some random TV show, you could find a sub where there would be 100 interesting conversations about it. That just doesn’t exist outside of Reddit. Where even could it? Fucking Quora? Facebook groups?

    I don’t know what anyone could have done to preserve it though. If it’s POSSIBLE to slap a million ads on it and make a billion dollars, but definitely ruin it forever…it’s inevitable. Nothing can stop that.

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    I wonder if they don’t even want mods. Just AI/algorithms and ads. What is 100 well moderated, mindful discussions worth compared to a single, well targeted ad?

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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 99%

    I’m sorry. The corporate assholes don’t deserve to pad their fat wallets based on your free labor, but it’s still absolutely the loss of something you love when you step away and it hurts. I’m still grieving losing Apollo and all of the goofy, weird ass little subs and brilliant human beings who made me laugh and cry every day on Reddit. It’s not been replaced in my life. It took millions of us almost 20 years to make that stupid website something incredible…I can’t deny that it was incredible at points.

    It’s gone, it’s just a website now and an app with ads every 3rd pixel just like the rest. There is still some good content and good people, just as there are on TikTok, Bookface, X and insta. The decent shit that is there, on all of the platforms, is overwhelmed by their horrible algorithm trying to sell you shit and increase engagement to monetize your every click.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What's the worst scam you've fallen for (or gotten close to falling for)?
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    1. Bought a timeshare in Vegas. Never used it. Paid the mortgage and maintenance fees for a few years then said fuckem and just stopped. Such a scam. They went out of business during the 2008 recession and it eventually fell off of our credit reports.

    2. Sold cutco knives in college (MLM). Perfectly fine product but overpriced and they basically get you pester all of your family and friends. I paid for the sample products myself. Made the biggest sale to my parents. Mostly just embarrassing.

    3. I bought speakers out a van like some other commenters. Probably paid too much, they sounded good and I used them for at least 10 years.

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  • nottheonion Not The Onion “You’re Not Doing a Prank,” Tucker Carlson Tells Man Pranking Him
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    Some guys told them they edited Kate Middleton’s pics and were whistleblowers so he interviewed them. They told him we aren’t really this is a prank and he said nuh uh.

    Link to clip, I’m not watching it. The article was funny in the wording but the whole thing itself doesn’t actually seem very funny.

    https://twitter.com/joshua_pieters/status/1768410708025221121

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  • fediverse Fediverse Pixelfed introduces Loops, a Short-Form Video App
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 100%

    Get some Chinese investors and a couple affiliate links…what could go wrong

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  • indiana Indiana Should students have cellphones in class? Indiana just said no — with a few exceptions
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 71%

    I’d be more than fine if the school makes kids put their phones away but I am definitely 100% against the state mandating anything like this. After they did the whole pronouns need parental permission bill I want the state to stay the fuck away from school policy setting…

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  • chatgpt ChatGPT How to jailbreak ChatGPT: get it to really do what you want | Digital Trends
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 100%

    What the fuck it would take a long time to copy and paste all of that text and take out the damn ads. Seems unlikely to work. ?

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  • apple Apple [MacRumors] Report: Most Subscription-Based Apps Do Not Make Money
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 100%

    Awesome. I would rather pay once for high quality apps. Most of the good ones I use for email, podcasts, notes, password saver now have subscription models that suck and bug me to upgrade even though I have the grandfathered full app. So annoying.

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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 100%

    Brilliant

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  • history History The History of Sega on Britannica
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 100%

    But why exactly?

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  • casualconversation [Outdated, please look at pinned post] Casual Conversation Do you have any famous ancestors that you are aware of?
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    According to my online family tree my 11th Great Grandmother is Joan Shakespeare, William Shakespeare’a sister, making The Bard my 11th Great Granduncle. When I was looking around that was the only notable one I could find who is a direct relative…if you allow 9 times removed and shit basically everyone is related to Michael Jackson, Lady Gaga and Abraham Lincoln.

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  • apple_enthusiast Apple iOS 17.4 is out
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 100%

    I pretty much listen to podcasts in order from oldest to newest so I haven’t seen any transcripts yet. Supposedly they are doing (adding transcripts) to all new episodes and old episodes will be filled in over time. I don’t know why I’m just really anal about it even if it’s just science stuff I feel like I always have to listen to stuff in order of release…

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  • indiana Indiana Follow-up: Indiana Senate and House pass Happy Hour Bill to Gov
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  • mysoulishome mysoulishome 6 months ago 100%

    I was hoping this was about eliminating the time change between standard and daylight savings.

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    Mildly Infuriating mysoulishome 7 months ago 95%
    2G, 3G, 4G, 5G mobile data made some sense as it represents generational leaps in the technology itself but then Xfinity wants to advertise "10g" internet...

    Comcast says it represents a 10 Gigabit cable internet network they are building (it doesn’t exist) so they are basically changing the meaning of the g from generation to gig to act like 10g is 5 generations better (or twice as fast)…or that they have a 10 gigabit network. Neither is accurate. It’s still just cable internet that people have to use because they have no other option. Fuck Comcast. I read online they are abandoning the “confusing” 10g branding but I just saw a commercial for it. They think all of their customers are morons and count on folks having no other choices in a lot of cases. Apologies to anyone outside the United States, this is just complaining about our poor internet options and deceptive advertising by greedy corporations.

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    San Francisco 49ers mysoulishome 8 months ago 100%
    Who would you rather face - Ravens or Chiefs and why?

    I would prefer to play and beat the Chiefs. The Ravens are very intimidating and they have a great team but I find the Chiefs more fun to watch and while they are hard to beat I don’t feel as afraid of them. Is that crazy?

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    Ask Lemmy mysoulishome 8 months ago 96%
    Anyone else do "last chance socks"?

    That thing where you put on a fresh pair of socks and one has a hole so you think well I went to all that trouble to pull it on, this will be your last day little buddy, I’ll just throw it away after I wear it today. Last chance underwear happen now and again as well but I guess it depends on where the hole is.

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    ChatGPT mysoulishome 8 months ago 94%
    Bard is great as long as you tell it what day it is before you ask a question...

    Really boggles my mind when I ask can ask it questions about live NFL games and it can answer in real time but I’ll ask another question and it doesn’t know what day today is…tells me the 2022 season is over because it is cycling into from some rando blog, I think. So smart and so fucking stupid.

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    No Stupid Questions mysoulishome 9 months ago 96%
    Honda's commercials saying they are going to be carbon neutral by 2050. What?

    What does this mean, if anything? How would it be possible for a car company to be carbon neutral? Is this just nonsense/posturing since it’s so long from now?

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    No Stupid Questions mysoulishome 10 months ago 82%
    Can anyone explain "Good Burger 2" to me? why does anyone want to watch this?

    Background for myself, I was a viewer when Good Burger was a sketch on “All That,” a children’s sketch comedy show on Nickelodeon in the 90’s. It was basically Saturday night live for kids. They had this heavyset girl who sarcastically read the news like Chevy Chase and shit. It was pretty edgy for nine-year-olds. Good Burger wasn’t even the funniest sketch on the fucking show. All of the comedy revolved around Kel’s character talking like a white surfer/stoner guy…like Bill & Ted, also popular around the time. He misunderstood peoples orders in an adorable way…I’d like a shake so he would shake you. Great. In 1997 I graduated high school and they released the movie that year… I guess it’s nostalgic and that’s why people remember it. Other 90s kids? Similar to SNL movies, it had cameos from a bunch of stars, and sort of a built-in audience, I guess, because of TV. I’m not sure if it went to theaters, but if it did, I don’t know who in the hell would watch it. Seems more like a VHS or Nickelodeon in the afternoon kind of thing. For me, I don’t understand how they could squeeze anything longer than a seven minute sketch out of the concept. I guess he Keenan Thompson is funny, but even him I’ve never seen him be funny longer than a seven minute sketch. And Kel is kind of like Jason Mewes, a novelty and not really a comedian or actor. Cool that he’s still around, like the Chinese kid from Indiana Jones. Edit to add - Ke Huy Quan deserved the Oscar as he’s talented…Kel is not, only nostalgic imo OK then. Doesn’t make sense to me that this movie was made or that anyone is in it or that anyone would want to watch it. But the Internet won’t stop trying to get me to see it. And it has like 67% critic rating on rotten tomatoes. Am I missing something? There are lots of fantastic movies that barely have 67%.

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    Mildly Infuriating mysoulishome 11 months ago 97%
    OK Microsoft... trying to log into Teams while work lapop updates to Windows 11. No longer works in any iPhone browser, including Edge. The app will not authenticate my work login.

    Update…Per Microsoft’s instructions, disabled all tracking protections in Safari and requested desktop mode and it works. Their instructions say turn protections back on after using teams… 😐 Funny enough it works in Safari and not Edge…tho that may be Apple’s fault since all browsers are somewhat just versions of Safari, last I heard…

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    Dads mysoulishome 11 months ago 95%
    Teen daughter - I might as well be an alien to her

    Posting this separate after my comment became so long… I’m having a general panic that my 15 year old daughter does not need me at all and I do not factor into her life whatsoever. Try to speak to her and she teases me and brushes me off. Her girlfriend wrote my wife a lovely note how she and my son are so lucky to have a mother who cares about them so much. No mention or even nod to the fact that I exist. We parent as a team…the way she is raised and all of the love and support she gets is 50/50 in my opinion, although my wife has the direct conversations about relationships, sex, girl stuff because she doesn’t want to talk to me about that. I suffered emotionally as a kid/teen and I have fought to get her therapy and medication, she went from being anxious beyond belief with suicidal ideation to pretty fucking happy nowadays…and that’s because I fought for that, based on my experience. I’ve given her the support I wish I had. Anyway, I hope it’s just a phase and she will talk to me again someday without giggling like I’m just a weirdo. I know what it’s like to be a teenager, I have a lot of wisdom. I love the shit out of her. I hope it passes and we are super close again at some point.

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    San Francisco 49ers mysoulishome 11 months ago 100%
    Last two games are the only ones I wasn't able to watch from beginning to end in about 10 games and I feel like this shit is my fault

    Not sure what’s happening but we are traveling, not able to watch from beginning to end things keep going to shit. Need to plan better so this stops…

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    Mildly Infuriating mysoulishome 11 months ago 83%
    Every year without fail. Beautiful, perfect weather then suddenly on Halloween…miserable cold snap (Degrees in F)

    Then you look at the temperature and think eh…45 isn’t that bad. We’ll survive. That will be the moment the wind whips up and sleet starts hitting you in the face.

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    Mildly Interesting mysoulishome 12 months ago 89%
    I carried my pet chicken, Jessica, around in a bag in 1987. Today I found this Amazon product stealing my idea. mastodon.world

    Edit: Redid the post from scratch as a Mastadon post. Amazon link to the chicken bag product https://a.co/d/fqTcQny

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    Indiana mysoulishome 12 months ago 100%
    Citizens Action Coalition (context in post) act.citact.org

    These folks called me while driving home yesterday and while I don’t like unsolicited calls and I don’t plan to donate again (right now) I do support their cause. They say they advocate for holding energy companies accountable for fair energy pricing and polluting the environment. Do they? I assume they do. You can use this form to email your representatives. I’m open to hear feedback if you have other suggestions on this issue.

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    CPTSD mysoulishome 1 year ago 100%
    Great blog about no contact. Highly recommend discissing boundaries with a therapist regardless of how you handle your family! https://cptsdfoundation.org/2023/08/29/going-no-contact-and-the-wisdom-of-goldilocks/
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    San Francisco 49ers mysoulishome 1 year ago 85%
    FanDuel odds: 49ers ranked #2 to win NFC (below Eagles), 5th to win Suberbowl clutchpoints.com

    FanDuel link: https://sportsbook.fanduel.com/navigation/nfl?tab=conferences Rankings seem fair. I like our chances!

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    No Stupid Questions mysoulishome 1 year ago 80%
    Why is everyone so giddy about the flooding thay happened at burning man?

    Social media seems to be laughing its ass off about this tragedy, is it because the folks at burning man are perceived as frivolous hippies or something? Everyone I’ve ever met who was a regular burning man attendee has been a solid human being with strong morals, personally and financially responsible, a career. Upstanding members of society for sure. I guess all some people know is the sensationalized drugs and sex. A person died. This is a tragedy for an event that brings positivity into the world. Kind of annoyed.

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    CPTSD mysoulishome 1 year ago 75%
    Vocalizing techniques for self regulation - Trauma Research Foundation traumaresearchfoundation.org
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    CPTSD mysoulishome 1 year ago 93%
    CPTSD in the Workplace: Anticipatory Anxiety https://cptsdfoundation.org/2023/08/24/cptsd-in-the-workplace-anticipatory-anxiety/
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    Off My Chest mysoulishome 1 year ago 86%
    Anti-trans legislation and public schools

    Somehow I was unaware until school started this week that the state I live in, Indiana, passed a law this year requiring the school to REPORT to the parents if a child requests to be called by a different name or gender pronoun than they registered under…and the parent has to give written permission for the school to use said name or gender pronouns. This has put a ridiculous burden on the teachers, of course. Today I got an email notifying me that my son, Ben, would like to be called Ben and not Benjamin. I signed a form. Thousands of other parents will do so as well. This is absolutely fucking ridiculous in so many ways. The pursuit of eliminating trans people at all costs has gotten so out of hand. This is some Taliban shit. Please…for fuck’s sake call my kids whatever they want to be called, have drag queens read to them…teach them that slavery was bad and gay people exist. Let the teachers teach. Help my kids to be smart and kind and call it a day…I trust our public school system. This is so infuriating. To the people passing these laws, I hope your children and grandchildren are ashamed of you and put you in a shitty nursing home and never visit you…and then you die (of old age) and the next generation is better. This is disgusting.

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    Bullet Journal mysoulishome 1 year ago 50%
    Here is what I do...not sure if it's really a bullet journal or not

    I’ve been working on trauma recovery this year and decided to implement a mindfulness habit of stopping 3 times a day and just noticing what my body is feeling. This is a somatic exercise for CPTSD because when you pay attention to what your body is feeling you can train it to process physical reactions such as fight or flight instinct…then your nervous system can learn to react in a healthy way instead of the reactions festering into anxiety, depression, feeling numb. Anyway…so I added reminders and tracking through streaks and finally settled on using Day One for this activity since I can pull out my phone to do it or do it on the iPad or computer…or even at work by sending an email. In the past few years I have tried off and on paper journals, Wordpress and Day One…my handwriting is terrible and my hands are getting more stiff in my mid 40s. I’m worried that Wordpress will go down someday and I’ll lose all my old stuff. I created a second journal in Day One called daily feelings and just freeform such as typing what I’m experiencing my body…my wife got annoyed because I told her the wrong day for a meeting…my lungs feel hot…and sometimes summarize a day or some thoughts on goals and successes. Writing helps me process. Sometimes a quick post becomes a longer post so I move it to the longer post. So yeah not sure this is a bullet journal…you tell me?

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    Mastodon mysoulishome 1 year ago 88%
    Even though your account is not locked, the mastodon.world staff thought you might want to review follow requests from these accounts manually.

    Never seen this before and thought it was interesting, a feature of Mastodon apparently? Wondering if this feature might allow the moderator to note *why* they took such action against the account in question? I'm mainly curious. The account that brought this up is @alt_Budget_cuts and appears to be a person or bot to be bot that randomizes content (cool art, youtube videos) along with the same bright yellow posts about workers/companies/budgets to try and drive people to a "How to get rich" website...I don't really know what the this account is. Looks like they have a twitter account too but can't tell what they post on their because fuck Elmo. The website doesn't seem to be selling anything that I can tell...the ideology and what exactly they are trying to say is confusing...maybe it's bad (racist or something) and I am just too dense to tell. The photos and etc that they post are actually pretty cool so I'm sure a lot of people follow back when they request to follow...I will definitely not...wondering what the mastodon.world admins saw or encountered that necessitated this? What types of reasons would you choose to mute and not ban?

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    Movies and TV Shows mysoulishome 1 year ago 88%
    Any app better than Reelgood for tracking what you've watched and want to watch?

    Things I like about Reelgood: track movies I want to see and what is on the services I subscribe to. Marking things I’ve seen and like or dislike. The app is fast and has no horrible ads. Available on iPhone, iPad and has an AppleTV App (tho not very useful). Things that could improve: Recommendations are terrible. No ability to mark movies “not interested” Alerts when something you want to see is added to a service you subscribe to UI could be a better Ratings by rotten tomatoes (certified fresh?) would be nice…maybe more tracking/labeling of awards like Sundance, Oscar’s, golden globes Better ability to sort by rating/popularity Community ratings, discussion, etc Maybe follow other users that share your tastes? Thanks for any tips you can offer.

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    San Francisco 49ers mysoulishome 1 year ago 87%
    Nick Bosa holds out, won't attend 49ers training camp without a new deal ninernoise.com

    Sad to even think we might not keep him but I can’t be mad personally. He deserves to be compensated for his talent.

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    San Francisco 49ers mysoulishome 1 year ago 81%
    Steve Young compares Brock Purdy to Luke Skywalker. Love it! Hope this young man gets to show what he can do this season. clutchpoints.com

    *(Clearly Clutchpoints has a very small budget for photoshop)* Text from the article: The San Francisco 49ers have questions at quarterback. That uncertainty became evident this past season when San Francisco dealt with multiple QB injuries. Brock Purdy stepped in and kept the 49ers afloat though. 49ers legendary quarterback Steve Young recently dropped an intriguing take on Purdy, per Jack Hammer of 49ers.pressdemocrat.com. “There’s a processing, I call it ‘the force’, it’s like a Star Wars analogy,” Young said. “It’s something you can’t describe. It’s just someone has ‘the force.’ And I think quarterbacking is so much that way. When I see someone who has the force, I don’t know how to tell you all the intricacies of what makes that, but you can just tell. Brock had it so thick. It’s like Luke Skywalker. “Right away, he wasn’t the biggest guy, he’s not the fast guy, he’s not the strongest arm, but he’s got the force. Maybe as strong as anyone who’s playing.” Young's take about the young 49ers quarterback is interesting. It appears as if he's trying to say that although Purdy may not be the biggest or fastest guy on the field, he finds a way to get the job done. Referring to “the force” in this situation will still leave some fans with questions. **49ers' QB situation heading into 2023** The 49ers will need to make a decision at QB at some point. San Francisco added Sam Darnold to the roster, but either Trey Lance or Brock Purdy will likely be the QB of the future. Darnold is a reliable depth piece, however. Lance was expected to be the option at quarterback for years to come heading into 2022. He went down with an early-season injury though. After Jimmy Garoppolo also suffered an injury, Purdy took over and didn't look back. His performance has given the 49ers something to consider. That said, Lance still deserves a shot since he did not get to truly showcase his ability. 49ers fans will be sure to closely follow the team's situation at QB all season long.

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    fediverse
    Fediverse mysoulishome 1 year ago 89%
    Fediverse equivalent use of TikTok/Instagram/Twitter for short video sharing..need tips on use/platforms/formats

    I've been loving Lemmy and mastodon and feel they are coming along as good replacements for Reddit and Twitter. Outside the fediverse, I occasionally enjoy posting *dumb little video shorts* and I put them on **TikTok, Facebook and Insta** because I have friends, family and followers on each. (TikTok, Gen-Z, my daughter...Facebook, Gen-X, my wife...Insta, millennials, my younger sister). I don't browse them heavily myself, but it helps me stay connected and it's fun when something you make goes micro-viral occasionally. I'd love to get more into the habit of sharing on the feddiverse and someday get rid of those others altogether (pipe dream)...so today I had dumb 22 second video of a rabbit, chipmunk and birds all around my birdfeeder. From my iPhone it's a **40 MB mov file**. I put it up on TikTok, Facebook and Insta very easily. Figured I'd put it on...mastodon I guess, and start that habit? Whelp, mastodon allows videos of that sizes but failed to process it 3 times. Next idea...might as well just sign up for pixelfed and use that to put it on mastodon, then use it as an **Instagram replacement**... I sign up and pixelfed doesn't accept the .mov video format...and I believe there is a file size limit of 15MB as well. I don't want to have to resize and reformat every video to post. I could use YouTube or a YouTube alternative (peertube), but I hate the fact that regular video services are trying to make short vertical videos happen on them to compete with TikTok. I hate seeing TikTok style stuff on YouTube and Facebook...it's crappy and out of place. The epitome of enshittification. Any tips or ideas? As far as fediverse platforms, I am **committed to using and growing Lemmy and mastodon** and I think I need to consider a 3rd service that is better for **video/photos**, whether it's *pixelfed, peertube* or *something else*...but at this point I got kind of stuck when I got frustrated with pixelfed and I'm not sure what to try next. I'd prefer not to have to resize and reformat a video just to share it...every time. And I'd prefer not to join something (another one I haven't heard of) that may not be successful. pixelfed seems like it's really exploding...that's why I figured that would be good. Advice?

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    general
    General Discussion mysoulishome 1 year ago 90%
    lol threads is a steaming pile of crap and I'm loving it

    (Photo: what the dumb little app looks like on my iPad) So…I’ve honestly been worried that threads is going to be successful and take away potential new users who might otherwise find their way to Lemmy/mastodon. Isn’t that why Zuck is doing this after all? To get their users hooked on their federated client and then steal their data and sell them ads? I figured I’d give in and sign up today, make a little bit of trouble (talk down meta, talk up fediverse) and then 1 star the app and delete it. Sign up was easy and I see that I have around 30 follow requests from my Instagram friends. A lot of them have been posting…..it looks like. Crap, I think. Meta might get away with this. Well, there is no iPad app which is ridiculous…even TikTok has one. The iPhone app is ugly and basic. Looking closely at my friends accounts, it seems clear that most of them tried it, made a few posts (a week ago or more) or zero posts in some cases…and that’s it. The “feed” has one option and it serves you whatever the hell it wants…for me it was nothing but splashy bullshit from Entertainment Weekly, political pundits, lame memes and The Tonight Show. Completely devoid of anything meaningful or interesting at all. I had followed back 30 people and there were zero posts in my feed from any of them. I’m so happy! It’s complete trash. I hope Zuckerberg is thoroughly embarrassed and the whole thing fails. 🎉Goodnight 😄

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    Mastodon mysoulishome 1 year ago 84%
    Question on blocking, seeing user in "local"

    If I block a user should it prevent them from coming up if I’m browsing “local”? There is a user just spamming gross porn…I blocked and refreshed but posts don’t go away from the “local” feed. Thanks for any help. I’m new obvs, loving Lemmy and trying to get into mastodon.

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