asklemmy Asklemmy Do you prefer contacts or glasses? Why?
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games Games It is 2023, Please stop blowing into Nintendo Consoles
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fediverse Fediverse Does it feel like the fediverse is exclusively used by older tech nerds?
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autism Autism Individual perspectives on autism & disability
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    very interesting to read everyone’s opinion. I’m adult diagnosed AuDHD. I think I’m ok with viewing it as a disability. This is mainly because honestly I thought I was just a terrible person and really bad at functioning in society despite holding down a full time job/getting good grades etc. I was absolutely horrible to myself in my head.

    Learning that I’m AuDHD has allowed me to understand my difference and yes disability and to be far kinder to myself

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  • apple_enthusiast Apple iCloud Mail vs Google Mail - what are your opinions?
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    The search function on the apple mail app on phone is absolutely dreadful. I always have to go to gmail to search again. Otherwise I’d be happy to jump

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  • technology Technology Reddit demands moderators remove NSFW labels, or else
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    worldnews World News Rice to get costlier as weather, India's farm perks threaten supply
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    Another staple increasing. But this one is a massive issue for families in poverty who rely on it

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  • world World News Didier Raoult, who popularized hydroxychloroquine as a treatment for covid-19, is being investigated for unauthorized research on homeless people
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    parenting Parenting Children bed sizes
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    Mine both decided that the best way to learn to get out of their cot was to get their hips up against the side, all pressure on their arms and then tip forward headfirst onto the floor. In both cases a mad scramble for a toddler bed and teaching them to stay in their bed at <2 (a hopeless cause resulting in soft floors and a tall stair gate on the door) resulted

    By three in both cases they were in full size singles for different reasons and so far there they stay (8 and 4 currently)

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  • technology Technology A Scientific Breakthrough in Noise Reduction
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    Autistic son will take any invention that blocks noise so hopefully this becomes something 🙈😂

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  • parenting Parenting Lets make a list: Parenting tips for babies 4-6 months
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    By this age we had started reading to him at ‘bedtime’ every night (even though he was still up many times after!) so my recommendation is for the Julia Donaldson lift the flap series: rabbits nap, foxes socks etc. we’ve gone through 2-3 of them between our two kids as they were absolutely beloved and worn to a thread.

    Other than that it’s a bit of a blur 😂

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  • ukraine Ukraine How can an offensive have "failed" if more than 90% of forces are still training for the offensive? - Thomas Theiner
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    adhd ADHD Can't Sleep, things going to shit and I don't know what to do
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    This is me. Got my dad to pick me up melatonin in the states. Absolute game changer for my sleep deprivation

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  • adhd ADHD Started combined medication therapy
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    I find that super interesting. How are side effects? Currently on concerta XL in Ireland and I keep getting tingling in my neck/scalp so considering going to back to investigate different meds

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  • worldnews World News Moscow says 700,000 children from Ukraine conflict zones now in Russian territory
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 88%

    That’s absolutely horrifying as a parent. Imagine going from a modern country to becoming a war zone to being conquered and your kids being forcibly removed from you? I’d crack up

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  • til Today I Learned (TIL) TIL about Alvin, a deep sea sub from the '60s still active today
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    nostupidquestions No Stupid Questions Reddit users lost?
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 92%

    I don’t think Reddit is imploding overnight but there seems to be an element of death by a thousand cuts happening. I’ve left and burned out three old usernames and over ten years worth of posts/comments. I’ll still use it to find answers to things but increasingly over the last month the threads are peppered with deleted comments and gaps

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  • nostupidquestions No Stupid Questions How is it possible that roughly 50% of Americans can’t read above a 6th grade level and how are 21% just flat out illiterate?
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    Tons of games with very little reading involved and people who do video content eg TikTok or YouTube rather than reading posts

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  • worldnews World News Google Says It'll Scrape Everything You Post Online for AI
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    nostupidquestions No Stupid Questions How is it possible that roughly 50% of Americans can’t read above a 6th grade level and how are 21% just flat out illiterate?
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 87%

    Income disparity, communities where education isn’t supported, underfunded education, book burnings, tv/internet/gaming they've all had an impact. Add covid to the mix and burnt out parents and it’s all coming to a head

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  • apple_enthusiast Apple What are your list of essential iOS apps?
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    newcommunities New Communities Endometriosis Support community
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    I’m trying to join if I can figure out how to. I’m on vlemmy with wefwef 😂. I’m happy to try and be active to get us going

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What are some reddit communities you wish to see live and more active on lemmy?
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    Agreed. I found an asthma one so I’m trying to be active there every day. I need to find endometriosis, bunions, gastric surgery 😂. I’m a total crock health wise and these chats help

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What are some reddit communities you wish to see live and more active on lemmy?
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    Similar issue for me. I’m feel I’m missing or haven’t found ones like the neurodiversity subs, specific medical ones like endometriosis, parenting ones, r/Ireland is probably the biggest one I miss outside of he headline Reddit ones

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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    Thank you for this! I’ve never come across it and I never made friends with goodreads fully so this is a good shout for trying something new!

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  • lemmyshitpost Lemmy Shitpost It took some editing, but I finally landed on my final farewell to 10+ years of Reddit
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    Installed wefwef Saturday. Sunday wiped out two reddit accounts with ten years worth of posting and officially left the platform. In the process realised I had actually stopped posting and was mostly doom scrolling. Very happy with the decision

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  • showerthoughts Showerthoughts Lemmy resembles the old reddit experience so well that they even emulate the old reddit server performance
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    196 196 Apps saying goodbye to Reddit and immediately becoming fediverse apps instead
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    Me too. And in nuking ten years of reddit history I realised I had stopped posting over the years as it got so big it just wasn't needed

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  • neurodivergence Neurodivergence Losing Things Evokes a Physical Stress Response
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    gooddaytodayhere
    1 year ago 100%

    This drives me absolutely mad. I find it so frustrating and I have to work so hard not to continuously beat myself up over it

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    VLemmy Chat gooddaytodayhere 1 year ago 100%
    Finding Communities

    I’m new to Lemmy and getting to grips with it all. I’ve found a community !education@lemmy.world using the aggregator lists in the starting guide. However if I use wefwef app or vlemmy in browser the search isn’t seeing this community so I can’t join. Am I doing something wrong?

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    RollerCoasters gooddaytodayhere 1 year ago 85%
    Efteling Theme Park

    Just joined from Reddit and aiming to try and be active! I literally just booked my tickets/hotel/flights to Efteling in the Netherlands. Anyone been? What’s your favourite? Baron 1898 looks cool!

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    Parenting gooddaytodayhere 1 year ago 100%
    Autism Parenting

    Some days you worry about whether you are doing the right thing as a parent. You second guess yourself all the time. My son went to a gaelscoil (school through Irish, it’s not our main language at home). I have second guessed myself about choosing that route, about the age he started etc. As the diagnoses (Autism/ADHD) first rolled in at age 7 when the anxiety hit the roof I questioned and debated again whether I made the right calls. The following year the dyslexia diagnosis came in and I properly panicked to have him in a dual language school. But ultimately their support is great. And we couldn’t get him in anywhere else local. And we worried about moving him from his friends as making them is very hard for him Two years ago we could not discuss emotions with him. He’s been in play therapy and psychology and has settled completely into himself. But still will not discuss emotions or feelings with us or others. He’s always ‘bad’ or ‘doesn’t know’. Other days however you can take the win, recognise it and bask in the realisation that right now? Right now his school are doing AMAZING! Last February they asked could they put him in a small group social support group as they felt he was ready. He came home today with a scrap book full of photos and pictures and writing (writing is a massive problem for him!) describing himself in a positive light, describing emotions, listing out his worries…. NGL I cried. This is just so amazing to see and I can’t believe they managed to get this all out of him Today is a good day

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