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    I'd take back those words that have hurt you

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  • firefox Firefox That's disappointing. I love #FireFox and #Mozilla but this is the wrong direction. The org doesn't appear to have a strong strategy, constantly moving from VPN, to fedi, to AI. Supporting federated
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    That's good to know. One of my phones is a Samsung Galaxy S22 and I suspect something went on with that year - a phone shouldn't simply get hot in your hands merely while web browsing for a couple of minutes.

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    Every time my phone shuts off for running out of battery, it's due to Firefox for some stupid reason. Chrome is somehow worse though, just in different ways. Perhaps I should investigate other things like LibreWolf, but if it were clearly better than either, I think we all would have heard of that fact by now.

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    A choice to be? (If only it were that simple.)

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    And on top of all of that, one person wants to actively make it worse, just bc he gets to skim a bit from the top. We deserve our fate I suppose, when we refuse to see something even after it is painstakingly pointed out to us, but damned if I'm not still sad about it.:-(

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  • OpenStars OpenStars 6 hours ago 83%

    By deregulation of what is allowed to be called "news", yeah. Though if we were that fragile to begin with... I wouldn't put all the blame onto him.

    Reconstructionism in the American South also played a role, in papering over some of the differences that lead up to the war, rather than dealing with them in a forthright manner, see e.g. Nuremberg trials.

    And ofc before that, people outright owned people as slaves, and even today the number of people who simply don't care in the slightest is extremely high.

    i.e., we aren't so much suffering from something like cancer as we are something more akin to a genetic defect, which even predated the Constitution. That is not to say this was inevitable - we've had so very many opportunities to turn back from where we've been headed... But neither we, nor the Russian disinformation campaigns directed at us, seem to want that to happen.

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  • OpenStars OpenStars 6 hours ago 100%

    I was going to mention some of that... but then I remembered that facts don't actually matter to them in the slightest so...

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    And that's the rub. One side is sending death threats and attempting kidnapping of the other, plus the whole storm the capitol thing, plus actively rooting to support not only Russia but Israel (tbf the other side is doing that too, at least the politicians even if not the voters) and even somehow North Fucking Korea, oh yeah and wanting to become fascist, while the other side... doesn't do most of those, at least to the same degree.

    In WWII we fought fascism, but it went underground (cough Fox News cough) and now it's back all over again, and this time it looks to be winning. Both globally, and almost if not quite at home (it may not have "won" yet, but at best things seem to be tied, and remember that SCOTUS ruling that nobody seems to be talking about anymore...? yeah that's not exactly a resounding defeat of fascism or at least authoritarianism there, when you can kill your political opponents at will).

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    Sorry, looks like that image cut off only halfway through the word, what it meant to say was...:

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  • adhd ADHD memes Horrified looks when I recount "funny stories" from my childhood to others, completes the trilogy.
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    Either all is well... or it's wearing the ring of power and all hell is about to break loose!

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  • lemmyshitpost Lemmy Shitpost Actions speak louder than words
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  • OpenStars OpenStars 7 hours ago 100%

    True... except she spake it, so...

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  • OpenStars OpenStars 7 hours ago 100%

    The number of people who do not know that the America in the Golden Era (50-60s), for white people especially men, was fairly socialist, is extremely high.

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  • OpenStars OpenStars 8 hours ago 100%

    Yes cause with his big strong hands he's definitely capable of that:-P.

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    - "conservatives" Republicans

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    Oh wait my bad that's 1 Thessalonians 5:21, oh well nobody seems to care.

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    Aminal says:

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  • OpenStars OpenStars 14 hours ago 100%

    Or as many of his followers say, someone "smart"(er than them).

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  • OpenStars OpenStars 14 hours ago 100%

    "Actually I prefer my mother's brother's sixth cousin's cleaning lady...

    's friend's neighbor's dog. She gives me cookies sometimes."

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  • adhd ADHD memes And then they don't stop after I say "I get it" a few times. 💀
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    Then nod faster?

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    Too high or... just right?

    Waka-waka!

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  • OpenStars OpenStars 15 hours ago 100%

    What if I cannot remember when my earliest memory is - how fucked am I then? :-P

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  • OpenStars OpenStars 15 hours ago 75%

    Trump is not a free-loader though!? And now that I've planted that thought... can you remind me why not exactly - asking for a friend? :-P

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    Don't forgot #5 - or for some people this probably replaces #4 - "Oh well".:-P

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  • showerthoughts Showerthoughts Girls taking shits is hella weird
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    No... only men are that dumb.

    I'm kidding - of course it depends on the person, regardless of gender! :-P

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  • showerthoughts Showerthoughts Girls taking shits is hella weird
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    It's fine to think it's weird. It's part of the process of growth (of ideas I mean, nothing to do with your own age). Continue to think about it though, and it won't be weird anymore. (I know... it sounds "weird" for me to say that?:-P)

    And on the other side of that, you will find something MUCH better - that women are people, almost literally exactly like you are. Except not precisely bc duh differences exist -but also yes, just as there are short or tall or medium sized men, there are people who are men, and there are people who are women. And we all shit. 😂

    You were lifting up women as being "special" somehow - which is part of the mystery, and girls literally play into that by attempting to hold back farts, belches, etc. (and guys do the same, getting high-paying jobs, driving sports cars, wearing toupets to cover bald spots, pretending to have confidence while hiding their true feelings, which is really quite damaging but that's the game and if you don't play then you absolutely lose, etc.) - but an even deeper mystery awaits on the other side of that, realizing just how equal they are, even despite how you had a crush on them. Like, that wasn't a doll that you liked, it was a person... who is full of so many more surprises and wonders (and farts and yes literal shit too, until it comes out and goes into the toilet:-). And I daresay that you would be quite incapable of loving a "person" so long as you continued to think of them as a "doll", but now that you realize this, you can actually, TRULY love someone.

    Btw, don't be tempted to get too down over this. Some people have been married for years and years before they figure this out - not that "everyone poops", bc that you figure out quite quickly, you know?:-P - but bc life can get busy, and leave you not that much time to think (there's school, maybe college, maybe grad school, there's work, there's kids, it's all A LOT!), some people in the past could get quite far into a marriage without ever fully realizing the full impact of what this means; that women are full-on people too. So, if you have time to think, and the willingness to do so, think about it, and see where that takes you.:-) 😉

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  • showerthoughts Showerthoughts Girls taking shits is hella weird
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  • OpenStars OpenStars 1 day ago 100%

    You can see for yourself that slinging accusations at others is only making it worse. In the real world, people have made all kinds of allowances for you (you didn't have to ask, they've done it since birth), but on the internet, nobody can see things like your age, your religion, what part of the world you are from, how sexually (in-)experienced you are, your privilege (wealth, class, etc.) status, and so much more. And here, people can be brutally honest, at least in sharing what they think of you (even if their own belief structures are themselves based on lies). TLDR: people downvote things that they "don't like", and upvote things that they "do like".

    Your comment obviously does not match the "vibe" of !ShowerThoughts@lemmy.world... so, you did not predict that, but now you know - thus you are already smarter than you were just an hour before, or at least could be if you take the feedback to heart:-).

    If you want more advice: hold fast to whatever principles you believe in - maybe Truth? perhaps Humility? do you perchance enjoy vindictiveness, or do you hate it, especially if it is done to you in reverse? Whatever those are, then there you go: you don't need me telling you what to do - you already know.

    Btw, I hope my words also expose how you were being hypocritical in sharing your original thought. But if it will help I will lay it out more plainly & transparently: girls do something totally normal, but you (arbitrarily?) decide that it is "bad", so now "Women have been ruined for me" (it's your thought fine, but how do you think "women" feel after reading that?) - do you not see how that is exactly what others are doing to you right now (having decided that what you did is "bad", and now slinging insults at you - that part of this exchange you do not seem to enjoy quite as much?). This isn't even a religious principle, it's a foundational law of the entire universe - equivalent exchange, or whatever name you want to call it by - if you cannot receive something directed back at you, then perhaps do not dish it out at others in return? It is unkind, and what is more, it is not smart. Perhaps your family never taught you that - maybe they tried, or perhaps they did not know themselves - but now that you have heard this message, it is your choice what to do with it: either pay attention and learn, or reject it and continue to do whatever.

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  • showerthoughts Showerthoughts Girls taking shits is hella weird
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    I... HOPE they were joking!? :-P

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    It helps to remember that girls are people. This video explains the secrets though (yes it's the infamous CollegeHumor skit, which apparently needs to make the rounds again:-P).

    Pro-Tip: even guys that don't belch and fart and spit and pick their nose and scratch their balls or pits and stuff literally everywhere they go without holding back can also look just as classy too:-). Also, again even as a guy, consider wearing an undershirt to not show nipples.

    It's not about girl vs. guy, it's about classy vs. not.

    Don't argue back - just do whatever you want, but you asked the entire Fediverse and I answered.

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  • programmer_humor Programmer Humor I redid the meme with what hurts me
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    Try assembly then - it'll freaking blow your mind!:-)

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    It also has a left arrow, i.e. it's a screenshot of an image.

    Hrm... yeah not enough Meta. So here's a screenshot of us talking about the screenshot of the image.

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    Yeah the only way to kill a troll is to... just stop talking to/about them. They feed off the negativity of others - Elon likes it when people increase the stock price of his company, and allow him to sell the userbase to advertising firms, so every single word of this just makes the Musk all that much stronger. Every. Single. Word.

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    Similarly, that's how Brexit happened too.

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  • asklemmy Ask Lemmy People who stuck around on Twitter; what's it like being force fed conservative social media?
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    Yes they is precisely it. Not to be confused with a Lego party (of blocks), or a Minecraft blocky party.

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    Super cool video on viruses https://youtu.be/SbvAaDN1bpE

    I'm not sure why they chose the title that they did though.

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    There's already no more black lung here and now - is this heaven meme?

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    So long as you only count the white children of wealthy elite families, and don't count the white poors, especially black poors (for whom the test often fails to detect it) and indigenous peoples. :-(

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    Come with us... we'll eat all the food everywhere else too.:-D

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    I hope he used the designated passing lane.:-)

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    Right... so is that "all" that EI is, another level below IQ, like physical safety is below either of those, or is it perhaps another half of the same rung on the ladder?

    I don't know, maybe nobody does, maybe someone does and I just haven't heard it from them:-).

    They are so extremely similar though - both involve a type of processing, both involve puzzle solving, and memory, and other shared components. It's just that one pertains to matters of the heart, and the other the brain.

    And to my knowledge there isn't anything else like it to be a third, but neither can we seem to isolate a discussion about just one, without the other getting pulled in as well. Like to learn math (IQ), patience (EI) is required, while to avoid mistakes (EI), we have to first understand (IQ) what might happen. The dichotomy is everywhere we look, at least among matters pertaining to humanity.

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    I mean, if they left it, possibly went to Mastodon, that sounds wonderful to me:-).

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    Hoop dancing explanation (<1 min) https://imgur.com/gallery/favorite-dump-I4hrvUm

    I don't know how to link to it directly, but I mean the #5 entry in this [imgur dump](https://imgur.com/gallery/favorite-dump-I4hrvUm) (the preview pic is wrong, it's showing the #1 entry, but you'll know the right one bc of the guy holding the hoop). Some of the others aren't bad either, but definitely check out the hoop one, I'm saying.:-)

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    Very well-stated (& calm) response to what is turning into a heated discussion about users on the hexbear.net instance https://lemmy.one/comment/12474924

    (The title you see below mine is the wording chosen by the OP of the full post - I hope I do not cause offense, but I cannot control it showing up here as it is linked.)

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    Robert Frost, Nothing Gold Can Stay www.poetryfoundation.org

    >Nature’s first green is gold, >Her hardest hue to hold. >Her early leaf’s a flower; >But only so an hour. >Then leaf subsides to leaf. >So Eden sank to grief, >So dawn goes down to day. >Nothing gold can stay.

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    Rudyard Kipling, "If—"

    >If you can keep your head when all about you > Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, >If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, >But make allowance for their doubting too; >If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, > Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, >Or being hated, don’t give way to hating, > And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise: >If you can dream—and not make dreams your master; > If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim; >If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster > And treat those two impostors just the same; >If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken > Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, >Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, > And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools: >If you can make one heap of all your winnings > And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, >And lose, and start again at your beginnings > And never breathe a word about your loss; >If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew > To serve your turn long after they are gone, >And so hold on when there is nothing in you > Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’ >If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, > Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch, >If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, > If all men count with you, but none too much; >If you can fill the unforgiving minute > With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, >Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, > And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

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    Josh Johnson Asks Black Voters: Biden or Trump? | The Daily Show https://youtu.be/a8dGrS3CJfk

    The result may surprise you: about 50/50, based on polls. These people relate their thoughts and experiences and explain why they feel as they do.

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    Jon Stewart Examines Biden’s Future | The Daily Show youtu.be

    > Honestly though, "get on board or STFU" is not a particularly compelling pro-democracy bumper sticker, nor is "meh, what are you going to do?" > All we want is for someone to keep it 💯 - the percentage, not the age.

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    The Hollow Men - T S Elliott https://allpoetry.com/the-hollow-men

    I We are the hollow men We are the stuffed men Leaning together Headpiece filled with straw. Alas! Our dried voices, when We whisper together Are quiet and meaningless As wind in dry grass Or rats' feet over broken glass In our dry cellar Shape without form, shade without colour, Paralysed force, gesture without motion; Those who have crossed With direct eyes, to death's other Kingdom Remember us-if at all-not as lost Violent souls, but only As the hollow men The stuffed men. Eyes I dare not meet in dreams In death's dream kingdom These do not appear: There, the eyes are Sunlight on a broken column There, is a tree swinging And voices are In the wind's singing More distant and more solemn Than a fading star. Let me be no nearer In death's dream kingdom Let me also wear Such deliberate disguises Rat's coat, crowskin, crossed staves In a field Behaving as the wind behaves No nearer- Not that final meeting In the twilight kingdom III This is the dead land This is cactus land Here the stone images Are raised, here they receive The supplication of a dead man's hand Under the twinkle of a fading star. Is it like this In death's other kingdom Waking alone At the hour when we are Trembling with tenderness Lips that would kiss Form prayers to broken stone. IV The eyes are not here There are no eyes here In this valley of dying stars In this hollow valley This broken jaw of our lost kingdoms In this last of meeting places We grope together And avoid speech Gathered on this beach of the tumid river Sightless, unless The eyes reappear As the perpetual star Multifoliate rose Of death's twilight kingdom The hope only Of empty men. V Here we go round the prickly pear Prickly pear prickly pear Here we go round the prickly pear At five o'clock in the morning. Between the idea And the reality Between the motion And the act Falls the Shadow For Thine is the Kingdom Between the conception And the creation Between the emotion And the response Falls the Shadow Life is very long Between the desire And the spasm Between the potency And the existence Between the essence And the descent Falls the Shadow For Thine is the Kingdom For Thine is Life is For Thine is the This is the way the world ends This is the way the world ends This is the way the world ends Not with a bang but a whimper.

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    [Opinion] Biden Must Resign https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2024/07/biden-resign-kamala-harris-presidential-candidate/678886/?gift=JLqSVjt7W3bgkjgmeiRDdD3_VmXJb7q5urw65m5fX1E

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.one/post/16476649 > For the good of the republic and to demonstrate new leadership before the election. Lays out an argument about how to navigate the difficulties ahead, addressing the challenges that would result.

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    Jon Stewart Debunks GOP’s City Crime Narrative | The Daily Show youtu.be

    Jon Stewart is outstanding, but also this video seems like one of his better ones. Aside from gun issues specifically, part of what makes this great is his calling the for-profit media sources out for their hypocrisy and willful ignorance, and callousness to the lives of innocents including our children.

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    Are you a 'tankie' - Lemmy https://lemmy.ml/post/16523224

    ![icon used on lemmygrad.ml](https://joinfediverse.wiki/images/d/d3/Lemmygrad.ml_server_image.png) Originally a light-hearted post poking fun at and doing a survey to gather input, but it has turned into a thought-provoking deeper dive into what it really means to be someone that people would call a "tankie". Note that to some (die-hard conservatives), we *all* are "tankies" on the Fediverse, but is there a meaning beyond the pejorative of merely "holding a belief that I do not personally agree with"? Come and join the fun, or read about the community consensus even long into the future?

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    Discussion about lemmy.ml admins abusing Fediverse moderation tools (with proof) https://lemmy.world/post/16211417

    https://lemmy.world/post/16211417 Lemmy.ml, like lemmygrad.ml and hexbear.net, has consistently been accused of improper Federation practices and many instances have decided to ban one or both of the latter by default, with many individual users having already gone further to block the former as well. However, many individual users on lemmy.ml seem unaware of the accusations of the practices of their admins, and some people go so far as to see lemmy.ml as a sort of default instance on the Fediverse. [This discussion](https://lemmy.world/post/16211417) promotes wider knowledge of the situation and what might be done about it in the future, in order to e.g. not turn away new potential Federation members (Fedizens?:-) that could otherwise associate what happens on that instance as something relating to the Fediverse as a whole.

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    Memes live in your brain youtu.be

    A video titled "This Video Will Make You Angry", by CGP Grey, about how memes evolve in the same manner as living organisms, though in this case those most successful tend to be the ones that engender anger in their target audience.

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