chapotraphouse chapotraphouse Are there any places online where cishet men do the "omg a pretty girl looked at me and I forgot how to exist" memes that you find in some lesbian spaces?
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    I have a hard barrier around expressing anything like that, online or off. The inherent hetero power dynamics make it creepy even if it's not a sexual impulse.

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  • askchapo askchapo What's the worst movie you've ever seen?
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    My friend turned to me after we watched that and said, "was that the most reddit movie ever made?"

    The horniness was whatever. Bill fucking Hader as "Chief Firewater" pissed me off to no end.

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  • badposting badposting Confession time, r/NoPiss: what made you decide to take control of your balls and stop pissing?
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    The mental clarity you get at the 60-day mark of nopiss is like nothing I've ever experienced before.

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  • badposting badposting Hexbear's Insistence on Writing-In Joe Biden Brings Dark Beanis Into Tormented Existence
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    CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn
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    The real answer for a black bear is make yourself look as big as possible, back away slowly, and tell it to fuck off in a deep voice. If it charges you it's hopefully feinting, but if not whack it right in the snout with whatever you have.

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  • askchapo askchapo Big camping meals with one tiny stove?
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    CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn
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    Premade chili, or a thick lentil curry, will be your best bet if you're doing anything active on this camping trip. Cook it ahead of time, throw it in the cooler, and heat it up. You may want to add a grain if you don't want to do rice before or after on the same burner (minute rice will be easy though).

    I personally love to dehydrate the above but that tends to be for backcountry canoe camping and hiking, where weight and volume matter a lot.

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  • chat chat Remember kids, never open up about your weird internet politics
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    CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn
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    There are ways to hide your power level but you have to be very accomodating, not get heated, and figure out what direction to guide someone to get them started questioning the dominant narrative, instead of going debate bro mode. People want to be listened to and respected, and will remember your tone, affect, and willingness to treat them like a person far more than they will your points 90% of the time.

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  • chat chat Gentle reminder to all
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    CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn
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    It means you have to tread carefully when organizing, and that it's important not to be callous about hardship.

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    If your position is, "bring on the US collapse; maybe it'll ease the boot off the Palestinians' necks," all I can say is that I hope you're right and I hope you're prepared.

    If your position is, "bring on the US collapse; I mean how much worse can it actually get?" you probably have no clue what you're talking about unless you've personally spent time in a war zone or lived through Katrina or something like that.

    One of the things that struck me while studying the Russian revolution is just how much of an academic relationship we communists have to major periods of historical change. From our position it's way easier to imagine ourselves in the room with Lenin trying to make a tough decision on agricultural policy than it is to imagine stretching your food store through a region-wide famine and crop failure, or watching your family all catch cholera, or getting shot by the white army...

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  • podcasts podcasts Enter the Battle Box feat. Kath Krueger & Mina Parkison | Chapo Trap House
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    chapotraphouse chapotraphouse ITT: we take bets on the shooters ideology
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    CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn
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    A radical anti-porn activist, upset at his affair with Stormy Daniels, who was completely juiced up on a 93-day nofap streak.

    That or a YIMBY who felt betrayed that a developer president never deregulated zoning via executive order.

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  • earth earth Bugs creep me out but I don't kill them. I like ants tho I think they cute and they're nature's workers.
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    I really do sincerely appreciate this sentiment, especially as a vegan, but I'm always curious about the ecological environment it can exist in. It's practically impossible to spend time in the Canadian wilderness in the spring or summer without murdering a few mosquitoes, ticks, horseflies, blackflies, deerflies, etc.

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  • news news RIP Jane McAlevey
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    RIP to a legit organizer. I took one of her courses a few years back. Super solid info and strategy.

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  • covid covid COVID Nostalgia: October 2020, The NYTimes say that COVID reinfections are rare
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    CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn
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    It's hard when you're not American and at least two of the categories are references to American media, places, or lingo.

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  • askchapo askchapo What Christian leftist movements are there now?
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    Not really a movement, but what I've noticed is that within liberal religious traditions that have a bit of a history of social justice and mutual aid, the younger generations (who are mostly not active churchgoers at this point) have taken very kindly to radical literature and ideas.

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    polyamory CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn 3 months ago 100%
    What are some of your favourite pieces of media with good poly representation?

    Inspired by a subthread in the post on sci-fi and fantasy tropes. A few books I've liked: ***Iron Widow***: a YA novel set in a fantasy version of medieval China. The main character has more than one love interest and from what I remember has a nice little spiel about resisting the social pressure to choose. I won't give any spoilers where it goes but I'm looking forward to the sequel this year. ***Sing for the Coming of the Longest Night***: a cute little winter soltice tale about two metamours that begrudgingly team up to go rescue their respective partner from a magical realm. ***The Giddy Death of Gays and the Strange Demise of Straights***: a bit of a chaotic story with a whirlwind cast of characters trying to make sense of all the heterodox ways that they love each other, amid a rising homophobic backlash. This one is a little rough around the edges as I believe it's self-published but has great showcasing of some unique kinds of connection. Set in Wales. As for movies I haven't seen many, but *Professor Marston and the Wonder Women* is very cute, despite falling into some thruple tropes. *Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice* gets a shoutout for being a very well-made, early (1960’s) take on sexually open relationships. What have you enjoyed?

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    askchapo askchapo What are your most hated sci-fi/fantasy tropes?
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    askchapo askchapo What are your most hated sci-fi/fantasy tropes?
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    Not nearly so detailed, but Sing For the Coming of the Longest Night is a great little fantasy story about two metamours that have to go rescue their mutual partner from a magical realm.

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    I can't understand how anyone remotely progressive actually liked Kingsman for the reasons you listed. It also just reeks of traditionalist masculinity, especially with the princess at the end 🤢. The only redeeming quality is the villain's silliness and Samuel Jackson's performance in that role.

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    chat chat Had to quit my thru hike :/
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    Absolutely not! I'm lucky that the trail wasn't actually backcountry for most of it, and I had an emergency sat phone, first aid kit, etc. with me, but I have seen some shit go down in the woods and know when to be careful.

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    I probably planned it a bit too ambitious in retrospect. I'm a very experienced adventurer and camper with some long canoe and cycling trips under my belt, so I'm well used to keeping up spirit and mental resilience in tough conditions, but never done a hike longer than a few days.

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  • chat chat Had to quit my thru hike :/
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    The pace was forced on me by the rest of my summer and fall being busy af, as well as difficult logistics on spots to stay (the trail I was doing has few official camping spots and they are far between). If I dedicate more time to it next year I could go quite a bit slower but I'll just miss out on all the other shit I wanna do in life, especially in the warm weather.

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    Had to quit my thru hike :/

    I made it 546 kilometres in 19 days, with ~350 left to go. Idk if my water filter failed or there was a hygiene slipup, but I woke up Thursday feeling super fatigued and that quickly slipped into beaver fever symptoms (or some kind of infection/parasite). Now I've spent the last few days recovering on the couch and picking up reading again. Still feels like a big achievement, but I had a bit of a short time window to finish the trail. Now I'll probably be too busy for the rest of the warmer season and have to wait until next year. ![sadness](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/3de7432c-5d0b-441d-9167-0c61cc3838ab.png "emoji sadness")

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    chat chat How many of you have high paying jobs, and how have you prevented your material means and social circles from eroding your leftist convictions?
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    I found very few of them had any close contact with "outsider" groups - the big two that come to mind are queer people and neurodivergent people (at least those who would have trouble masking all day so as to conform to the culture, dress, etc.) Some of them were certainly a bit socially isolated, but they could count on being able to pay for not just basic needs but treats, comforts, and brand identity markers to paper over that. With an above-median personal income, the main next steps are to secure house ownership and then start a family, which can serve as your main purpose in life and also your main social unit that isn't governed by economic transactions. I found very little interest in community building or intersectional solidarity.

    When you're on that level there's no reason to question eating out or ordering food several times a week, flying across the world and staying in hotels several times a year, or ridesharing into work every day. There's no need to think about the massive amounts of service labour that go into making those comforts accessible at the push of a button, nor anything that would lead them to realize that very few of those labourers can afford any of that themselves. For them, service labour is something you do in high school for some extra spending cash and a way to teach diligence to the youth.

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    I was in tech for two years recently. It gave me enough money to purchase a vehicle to live in and to coast for the next little bit, but among the many reasons I quit (it was bad for my brain, it took up way too much of my time) was feeling the distinction in class interests. The biggest expression of this was that my coworkers had such bubbled views of social relations and had strange expectations of what the world owes them simply on account of how much money they have.

    I think if you're committed to your principles you'll be fine. I just found I didn't like being around people of that class for such extended periods of time.

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  • news news Bulletins and News Discussion from June 17th to June 23rd, 2024 - Macron's Gambit - COTW: France
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    Lol I love how Varn has been ranting about MMTers for a while but each time with a bigger disclaimer that he agrees with their fundamental analysis, up to the point where he has the founder on. I'll have to give it a listen.

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  • askchapo askchapo Good ways of meeting new people?
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    Volunteer work is great as you'll have something to keep you occupied if you're struggling to initiate a conversation, and also you'll have to talk to people just a bit to get some instruction or collaborate on the work. You'll start off on a good fit since people will like that you're helping out with their favourite cause, and they'll be naturally a bit curious about you and why you joined.

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  • chapotraphouse chapotraphouse Pro-tip: never say "nihilism", instead say "bourgeois nihilism"
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    4 months ago 100%

    Maybe OP identifies with some kind of nihilism and doesn't like seeing it criticized in broad strokes?

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  • chapotraphouse chapotraphouse r/collapse is the most insidious fash cesspool on reddit and they're not even hiding it anymore
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    CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn
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    It's so stupid because there's such a simple gotchya response. You think there are too many people for the resources we have, and some need to go one way or another? Then it makes sense to start with the people that use the most resources, right?

    In fact we probably don't even need to get rid of that many - let's just off the 5000 or so richest people on the planet, expropriate their stuff, and that will free up far more fuel, land, water, energy, money, whatever than you could possibly hope to get from letting millions in the global south perish.

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  • chapotraphouse chapotraphouse Remember when people thought they found invisible alien fish but it turned out to just be bugs?
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    badposting badposting bad posting is the twelveth most active comm bit only has 223 subscribers
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    the_dunk_tank the_dunk_tank stephen colbert did a "skibidi biden" bit, it's even worse than it sounds
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    Wow the only thing I've seen that comes remotely close to this is Ajit Pai with the fidget spinners seven years ago.

    Pro tip for the libs: do not try to use the latest, hippest memes to paper over a gap in youth support that exists for material reasons.

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    hexbear hexbear Concept: we put those quotes we keep posting all the time under the emoji menu
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    music music I realized that I haven't listened to any albums from 2024 yet so I downloaded a bunch, this is my playlist for today, it'll be my first time hearing each album, what am i in for?
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    technology CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn 5 months ago 100%
    Is there a Fediverse platform for redistribution of used goods?

    I mean something like marketplace or kijiji, but not necessarily monetary. It's probably a ridiculous question but I'm curious if anybody's been exploring this space.

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    movies CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn 8 months ago 100%
    Did anyone watch The Curse?

    It's definitely an uncomfortable and painful show for 95% of the screen time, but I couldn't help but love the writing, acting, cinematography, soundtrack and pretty much everything else. I really wasn't sure how much I liked the finale and it's particular kind of left turn (don't spoil it) but now that I'm about a week out from seeing it I think it's an incredibly strong finish. I'm curious what anyone else thought of it.

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    urbanism CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn 10 months ago 100%
    Rail service in my country is so bad I just hopped a freight train

    10/10 would not recommend because it's dangerous and irresponsible, but boy that was a hell of a ride. All I want for Christmas is more trains of every kind ![FrogPog](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/83763250-b73e-44d4-9eb5-05bc7e781de1.png "emoji FrogPog")

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    music CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn 11 months ago 100%
    Buffy Sainte-Marie has been pretending to be Indigenous her entire career https://www.cbc.ca/newsinteractives/features/buffy-sainte-marie

    ![jesus-christ](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/ba00a473-2f3e-429e-b18b-fdd68e8827c9.png "emoji jesus-christ")

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    movies CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn 12 months ago 100%
    Thoughts on Russian Ark?

    I just watched it last night. I thought it was a pretty incredible film conceptually and visually. I can also understand its purchase in the West, as I feel like it glorifies pre-USSR imperial Russia, and there are only thin references to anything in the 20th century (the most notable and darkly trippy of these being the soldier digging his own grave during the siege of Leningrad).

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