apple_enthusiast Apple Apple reaches an agreement with a union at one of its American stores for the first time
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    Start saving for retirement now. You can make literally millions by putting away 10% of your income early on. Do it automatically so you never even notice the money gone.

    If you are worried about making the wrong choice and your company doesn’t have a 401k, open an IRA somewhere (Fidelity if you need someone to make the decision for you) and pick a date targeted fund. Set up auto deposit. Never look at the balance.

    You can always make it better later but for now the best thing to do is start. Don’t let analysis paralysis get in the way.

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    Can Mario jump off Yoshi, sacrificing the noble creature to add yet another star to the cruel plumber’s collection?

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  • fediverse Fediverse Flipboard Brings Local News to the Fediverse
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    Mastodon is adding a feature that will tag links with Fediverse ids. So if I post an article link, and the news site has the special meta tag, the. The journalist’s Fediverse is will be linked below the article’s embed in my post.

    This is probably an effort to help journalists find their audience on independent social media, which would help the whole ecosystem.

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  • playstation PlayStation [Playstation Lifestyle] Fortnite Players Hunting Down Those Using Elon Musk’s Tesla Cybertruck
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    housing_bubble_2 Housing Bubble 2: Return of the Ugly Tenannts abusing m'lord's kindness again.
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    People thinking this is real need to take a deep breath and start thinking critically about what they read online.

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  • nostupidquestions No Stupid Questions Can you tell me if this a sane business/side gig idea? "baby sitting" as a 30 yo man.
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    I’m not dropping my kids off at a stranger’s house, and to be a bit sexist here a single man’s house, and paying him to let my kids swim at his pool, drive go karts on open pavement, and play store-bought laser tag.

    An insured fun center with employees? Sure, maybe. Some guy’s home? Absolutely not.

    I also am not putting my kids in an Uber alone.

    If you want to be Johnny Karate, figure out something you can bring to birthday parties or kids events and make your money that way. But “unlicensed daycare” is a hard no.

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  • retrogaming RetroGaming A Nintendo World Championships Gold NES Cart Is Available For Sale For The First Time In A Decade
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    retrogaming RetroGaming A Nintendo World Championships Gold NES Cart Is Available For Sale For The First Time In A Decade
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    I played this three times! There was a qualifier round, then a quarter final or something on stage, and I did well enough in that that I got to come back the next day and lose on stage! I peaked in 1990.

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  • memes Memes "30 minutes or it's free" back then was wild
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    They generally asked for your cross streets, then looked at the giant street map on the wall to figure out where you were. Not exactly an unsolvable problem.

    Edit: and it’s not like they needed turn by turn directions. Just figure out where to go from the cross streets. Oh it’s northwest of Maple and Cyan, 3 streets into the neighborhood. The drivers can get to the crossroads on their own, that’s just local knowledge.

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  • meanwhileongrad MeanwhileOnGrad “There was four years of Trump and nothing particularly bad happened”
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    climate Climate - truthful information about climate, related activism and politics. ‘It affects everything’: why is Hollywood so scared to tackle the climate crisis?
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    Famine and climate refugees lead to authoritarian governments. Or, just have it in the backdrop like a comedy about a heatwave in March where people are sweltering and it turns into a meetcute.

    Or just the super fucked up first chapter of Ministry for the Future.

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    nostupidquestions No Stupid Questions I genuinely feel like I wouldn't live that differently even if I suddenly became ultra-wealthy. Am I kidding myself?
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    One of those guides to “what to do if you win the lottery” says to, up front, decide how much and who you want to fund. Want to buy all your friends and family houses and college tuition? Sure.

    But the thing is that money can make people go crazy. Some people will always want more. Sure you got them a house, but you’re rich, why can’t you get them a car too? And now they’re a little behind on bills, surely you can help them out, right? And it never stops. Not everyone, but someone.

    You might be interested in this podcast episode that touches on the subject: https://hiddenbrain.org/podcast/between-two-worlds/

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  • nostupidquestions No Stupid Questions I genuinely feel like I wouldn't live that differently even if I suddenly became ultra-wealthy. Am I kidding myself?
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    You are suddenly super rich. Now all your friends and family expect you to provide for them. Every kindness they offer is suspect, are they doing it because they like you or because they want your money? How can you really know?

    You don’t have to work and can go anywhere in the world. But your friends still have jobs, so you travel alone.

    Some of your friends start to resent your new lifestyle. Others may just be staying quiet. You read about “crabs in a bucket” and distance yourself more from them.

    It’s really isolating, but you meet some other wealthy people and you know they don’t need your money. And… you actually have some stuff in common with them. Yes Ibiza is overrated, but they suggest another place to check out. You go out with them to amazing restaurants that your old friends wouldn’t even appreciate. You can commiserate about how hard it is to get good help these days.

    On top of all that, you slowly start to notice an emptiness inside. You should be happy! You don’t have to work anymore! You have everything you could ever want! Why do you feel this way!?!? Drugs and expensive purchases fill the need momentarily. If try telling your old friends that you’re not all that fulfilled, they’ll pull out the world’s tiniest violin for you. You lack purpose and goals, and feel like you are drifting in a life of luxury completely devoid of meaning.

    If you’re lucky you find a way to have a new purpose in life and accept that the money changed you. If not you spiral and, best case scenario, wind up broke.

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  • parenting Parenting Parents, how do you manage summer breaks, who takes care of your children when there is no school?
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    In my town, most of the summer camps fill up in March. Every dual-income family I know has a spreadsheet and keeps track of exactly when online registration opens. It’s a nightmare, and expensive too.

    Mine are starting to get old enough that we are doing a mix of camps and WFH weeks. It’s not ideal but we’ve scraped enough together that it mostly works.

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  • news News Charges announced over alleged $120K bribe attempt during pandemic relief fraud trial
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    Does she get to keep the money? I know it’s evidence, but they still gave it to her. She owns it, right? When the trial is done, why shouldn’t she get it?

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  • yimby Yes in my backyard! [article] Opinion: Making housing more affordable means your home’s value is going to have to come down
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    I’m ok with that. If I sell my house, I’ll need to buy another one, which will be cheaper too. The only people who lose out are investors that treat a necessity of life as a get rich quick scheme.

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  • mensliberation Men's Liberation Patriarchy According to The Barbie Movie
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    It’s kind of hard to summarize, it really is “Patriarchy 101” (or maybe 102) with the Barbie movie as a narrative base. It was good to hear things I’ve intuited explicitly stated

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    4 months ago 70%

    I wish more men could understand how the patriarchy hurts men, I like how this puts it into words.

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    Patriarchy According to The Barbie Movie archive.org

    I’m kind of amazed that this is getting downvotes after 20 minutes, even though the video is 33 minutes. I guess you already saw this?

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    mensliberation Men's Liberation About the bear...
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    4 months ago 30%

    And George Washington Carver was genius with peanuts. Whats that got to do with the topic at hand?

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    I think a lot of men believe “I’m one of the good ones” and don’t stop to think that a random woman on the street (or in the woods, in this case) has no way of determining that.

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  • python Python A Guide to Python Lambda Functions
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    Can you give an example? Can you use it to initialize vars outside the scope of the lambda?

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    This is addressed in The Rise And Fall of DODO. There’s a whole decontamination quarantine period for time travelers.

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    Sounds like there’s a headless version of Plexamp that can run on a Pi.

    If you use Plex, you would be able to use Plexamp on your computer or phone to play your music on the Pi’s Plexamp.

    Or you could get a modern receiver that supports Chromecast and AirPlay and use one of those to stream to the receiver.

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  • leftymemes Lefty Memes I don't know the way, but this ain't it
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    If a system moves people around and some of them die, that’s the purpose of the system.

    You can say “we don’t want any of them to die” and that’s true, but the system doesn’t reflect that.

    You can say “fewer people will die because more people can get to hospitals, but some will die as a result of people moving around” and the system will demonstrate that.

    Is that a “we don’t want anyone to die” system or is it a “we are going to accept some people dying as a result of the system so that more people can be saved” system?

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    The purpose of a system is what it does.

    If a system crushes orphans, its purpose is to crash orphans. The designers and participants may say otherwise, but they are ignoring the crushed orphans.

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  • memes memes "No thanks, I research my own charities before making a donation"
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    Everyone is talking about how taxes work and no one is talking about how this meme works. He doesn’t need glasses anymore! It looks blurry with his glasses!

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  • marvelstudios Marvel Studios On this day 5 years ago, "AVENGERS: ENDGAME" was released in theaters.
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    Multiverse of Madness? Ok, yeah that was another solid post-Endgame film. Loki’s been good too.

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  • marvelstudios Marvel Studios On this day 5 years ago, "AVENGERS: ENDGAME" was released in theaters.
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    detroit Detroit GM and Bedrock cut from the bottom of the deck
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    Commercial real estate is in bad shape across the board, I can’t imagine how else they’ll fill it though. Maybe by employing the rest of Rocket from Campus Martius? That’s more shuffling deck chairs, not bringing people into the city.

    When I was moving a decade ago my wife and I considered Detroit. The schools meant we’d have to pay for private and after factoring that and insurance in, it was the same as moving to Ann Arbor.

    Maybe invest in schools and infrastructure instead of giving tax breaks to billionaires?

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    Men's Liberation BeefPiano 10 months ago 56%
    NYT Opinion | Why Aren’t More People Marrying? Ask Women What Dating Is Like. (Gift Link) www.nytimes.com

    This is a tough piece, one that I share without fully endorsing. It lays out the problems that women experience with some men, like that men are not getting college degrees at the same rate as women or the lack of emotional modelling provided to boys and young men: > For a variety of reasons — mixed messages from the broader culture about toughness and vulnerability, the activity-oriented nature of male friendships — it seems that by the time men begin dating, they are relatively “limited in their ability and willingness to be fully emotionally present and available,” he said. Where I think it stops short is in thinking about the root causes of those things, and how supporting men can bring them into the feminist tent.

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    PlayStation BeefPiano 11 months ago 80%
    When do we expect PS5 Slim to drop?

    I know USA should be getting them sometime in November, any idea when though?

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    ADHD BeefPiano 12 months ago 92%
    ADHD has real health effects

    > Compared to other killers from a public health standpoint, ADHD is bad. Smoking, for example, reduces life expectancy by 2.4 years, and if you smoke more than 20 cigarettes a day you're down about 6.5 years. For diabetes and obesity it's a couple of years. For elevated blood cholesterol, it's 9 months. ADHD is worse than the top 5 killers in the U.S. combined. > > Having ADHD costs a person nearly thirteen years of life, on average. Barkley adds, And that's on top of all the findings of a greater risk for accidental injury and suicide....About two-thirds of people with ADHD have a life expectancy reduced by up to 21 years. This is from Edward M. Hallowell and John J. Ratey in their book *ADHD 2.0* [Here is some more background on the research](https://www.additudemag.com/adhd-life-expectancy-russell-barkley/)

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    Michigan ends marijuana testing for most state jobs www.cbsnews.com

    cross-posted from !michigantrees@lemmy.world: https://lemmy.world/post/1938153 > Recreational marijuana has been legal in Michigan since late 2018, but in the years since people looking to work for the state of Michigan were still subject to marijuana testing. But that changed this week in a unanimous vote from the Michigan Civil Service Commission. > > This change means regulations will look at recreational marijuana use much like alcohol use and won't test for it in new hires.

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    Michigan ends marijuana testing for most state jobs www.cbsnews.com

    Recreational marijuana has been legal in Michigan since late 2018, but in the years since people looking to work for the state of Michigan were still subject to marijuana testing. But that changed this week in a unanimous vote from the Michigan Civil Service Commission. This change means regulations will look at recreational marijuana use much like alcohol use and won't test for it in new hires.

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