• pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 7 months ago 100%

    Dog tax! Here is the unrepentant culprit.

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    Mended dog harness https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/2afb4b28-fa3e-4152-ac3c-86d8887f38bc.jpeg

    My dog chewed her harness. Here's the mending job. Mended with embroidery floss by hand.

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    This is Eggplant. Eggplant is not a smart cat. https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/1648419c-eab0-4dd8-a206-84e8485ea74a.jpeg

    Eggplant is one of my MIL's rescue cats. On my trip to see her, he has: - gotten into my car (luckily I noticed him before driving away) - attempted to nurse on a nonlactating dog - stuck his head into a pen holding the dog who tried to chase him

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    agora The Agora [Vote] Should we pre-emptively defederate Threads?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 9 months ago 100%

    Yes

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  • politicalmemes Political Memes The other inflation issue
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 10 months ago 100%

    This meme is art

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  • autism Autism Does anyone put a foot on its side while sitting?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 10 months ago 100%

    No, but I cross my legs while standing so that my feet are close to perpendicular. It's comfy.

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  • sewingrepairing Sewing, Repairing and Reducing Waste A wiki for repairing anything
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 10 months ago 100%

    Bookmarking this!

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  • sewing Sewing Spooky Halloween shirt complete!
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 11 months ago 100%

    Holy shit this is awesome

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  • autism Autism Neurodivergent Math
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 11 months ago 100%

    Exactly! It's called planning ahead, get with it NT folks

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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 11 months ago 100%

    Congrats

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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 12 months ago 100%

    Nope, but YMMV

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  • sewingrepairing Sewing, Repairing and Reducing Waste How do FOSS enthusiasts sew? What hardware do they buy?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 12 months ago 100%

    So...the first thing you need to understand is that there are different types of sewing machines, as someone commented on your original post. There are:

    1. "Regular" sewing machines, which can be either mechanical or computerized. These are the type of machines virtually all hobbyists use and can handle a huge range of projects, from linen napkins to ballgowns. It's important to note that either the computer or the mechanical system determines stitch length and width.

    2. Serging machines, which cut the fabric while sewing it, and make a single specialized stitch.

    3. Embroidery machines. These are similar to "regular" sewing machines, but with a wider table and extra parts for stretching out the area you're embroidering. They also have a computer to track/calculate the stitches in a given embroidered image.

    As far as I'm aware, software is only available for embroidery machines. The computers in anything less than the most expensive of home sewing machines are pretty simple, and I'm not even sure how you would access them. They don't connect to wifi, and there are no ports in the machines except for power and the foot pedal.

    For the use cases you listed, I recommend a basic "regular" sewing machine such as this one. Any regular sewing machine built in the past several decades will be able to use a variety of stitches out of the box.

    For repairing socks specifically, I agree with the other poster who talked about zigzag and stretch stitches.

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    Second darned sock

    I've recently started darning my worn-out socks (shoutout to that one poster who posted a tutorial) and so it's going really well! My socks are still comfy, and the woven patches do the job.

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    LoseIt: Lose the Fat pedantichedgehog 12 months ago 100%
    SV: lost the weight I gained over vacation

    I had a week-long staycation while relatives visited recently, and weate out several times. I gained a couple of pounds. As of this morning, I have officially lost it all and am down to 152lbs.

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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Do you have access to a sewing machine?

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  • loseit LoseIt: Lose the Fat Check-in (of sorts)
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    I've been struggling to stay on the wagon for more than two days for the past several weeks. Weighed in this morning at 153.

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  • agora The Agora [Vote] Which banner do you prefer?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    noooo it's horrifying

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  • agora The Agora [Vote] Which banner do you prefer?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

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  • womenwithautism Women with Autism How old were you when you were diagnosed (self or otherwise)? What was your journey to diagnosis?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    My autistic dad frequently said that I was on the spectrum (always that exact phrase) but refused to have me diagnosed. I grew up just assuming that I had a high-functioning (as I need relatively few accommodations; my apologies if this is an outdated term) form of autism.

    Now as an adult, I still don't have the resources to get a professional diagnosis. I feel very much at home in groups like this; I have many of the symptoms of autism though not all; I got 136 on the RAADS-R test. That test was the tipping point that pushed me mentally from "strongly suspecting I'm autistic" to "self-diagnosed autistic".

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy How often do you brush your teeth?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    I floss and brush religiously every night, have for many years. I had a cavity when I was young and the whole experience was terrible.

    I still ended up with multiple cavities as an adult.

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    parenting pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%
    Turns out my toddler DOES like spaghetti, but only if it's MY spaghetti.

    My toddler has been going through a incredibly picky phase. He's been turning his nose up at foods he's consistently eaten before, and...it's been a struggle. Recently, I made myself spaghetti for dinner. My partner had already coaxed our son into eating some eggs and fruit, and my son had shown no interest in spaghetti two days earlier, so I didn't make any for him. Turns out the toddler *does* like spaghetti, and is very insistent on eating it *if* he can eat it off my fork, out of my bowl, while I'm also trying to eat from the same bowl. If I give up, give him the whole bowl and look for something else? Nah. Then it's no good anymore apparently. Why are toddlers like this?

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    loseit LoseIt: Lose the Fat SV: 7 lbs down since mid-May
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Thanks :D

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What are the main excuses from people who don't care about digital privacy?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Not an excuse, but an explanation: ignorance.

    Most people don't know how ads or data collection works beyond the obvious uptick in a product after you search for it. They don't know what impact it might have.

    Full disclosure: I'm mostly in this camp. I only recently started using firefox over chrome, for example. I know that big tech collects obscene amounts of data, and monetizes it by targeted advertisements, but...beyond that, I don't know what FAANG can do with the data collected on me. I only have a vague idea of what's being collected.

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    SV: 7 lbs down since mid-May

    I started CICO, once again, mid-May at 160 pounds. Now at the end of June, I'm down to 153 lbs.

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    asklemmy Asklemmy In 1949, Diamonds were a Girl's Best friend. What is the Modern Girl's Best friend?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 96%

    Fundamental rights

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  • loseit LoseIt: Lose the Fat Eat less, Move more -- common advice, but two different things...
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Great writeup.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy What are some good ways to be less depressed?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Lmao you absolutely can.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy Hypothetically speaking, if Reddit back tracks on their API plan and meets all of the communities expeditions- would you go back to Reddit?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Sure. In the same vein, I'll go back to twitter if elon musk somehow restored it to the way it was before before his purchase.

    Neither scenario will happen, of course. But if we're talking about hypotheticals, I wouldn't have an issue returning.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy Who is a stranger you will never forget?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 75%

    I was working at a grocery store, stocking food in the freezer aisle. Along comes a customer, passing by on the other side of the waist-level coolers that divide the aisle in half. She's unremarkable: middle-aged, white, obese. Indistinguishable from the thousands of other customers I saw in my years there.

    So this woman passes me, just looking at the frozen foods. And there, hanging on the back of her shirt, is a lizard. And not just a common garden-variety lizard, but a bearded dragon.

    A live adult bearded dragon is just chilling on the back of this customer's shirt as she does her grocery shopping.

    Just. What.

    I had so many questions. But I was a socially awkward teenager so I said nothing and never saw the lizard lady again.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy How are the mobile apps for kbin/lemmy coming?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Lemmy already has jerboa.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy How can I upload videos and GIFs?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    I see an androidish icon? (Could be a jerboa icon. Idk) I'm on jerboa on an android.

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  • asklemmy Asklemmy How can I upload videos and GIFs?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Hey fellow ex-redditor! I've seen some people post video (youtube) links. I haven't seen a gif or native video yet, so I'm not sure if it's currently possible.

    I'm new too, so I don't have a more solid answer than that.

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    [vent] does anyone else get frustrated at larger folks who want to lose weight?

    I'm a short person. I'm also sedentary and classified as overweight but not obese. As such, my TDEE is around 1600-1700 calories. So, to lose weight at the pace I'd like, I have to restrict myself to 1200 calories a day. My partner is taller, fatter and has more muscle mass than me. He's talked about wanting to lose weight to get healthier, but when it comes down to it he won't do anything. Which is baffling to me, because his TDEE is high enough that he could eat waaay more than me *and still lose weight.* Ugh. It's frustrating.

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    asklemmy Asklemmy What is the most WRONG thing a teacher, professor, or school book told you?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    I was homeschooled. Never went to public school. And my parents were christians, so naturally they bought christian apologetic textbooks.

    One science (biology I think, high school level) textbook had most of a chapter discussing why the "theory of evolution" was "wrong". Another book from the same publisher discussed at length why global warming (and the ozone-thinning effect of certain chemicals) was untrue.

    My chemistry professor in college, wonderful man that he was, was the first person to explain divergent and convergent evolution to me.

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  • parenting parenting Simple everyday meals
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    If you don't count inactive time, overnight oats are great. I like to microwave some milk with some kind of fruit, then dump in some quick-cooking oats and refrigerate it overnight. My little one loves it!

    Fruits and vegetables if your kids will eat them are obviously the best choice, but I realize that's a big "if".

    Chicken nuggets can be microwaved in about a minute. Some brands make cauliflower-chicken nuggets.

    Plain rice balls aren't exactly quick, but if you make them ahead of time they refrigerate okay and can be a good snack. Personally I don't like the texture once they've been chilled but they're a big hit with my kid.

    Cheese (sticks or cubes) take very little time to prepare.

    (Edit: i didn't realize this post was this old until after I'd finished. Oops.)

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  • parenting parenting Things every parent should (at least) know about
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    For those interested in learning more about non-punitive discipline, I strongly recommend Alfie Kohn's book Unconditional Parenting.

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  • parenting parenting So here you are ... what next?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Heeeyy. I'm another parent who's migrated here from reddit. Reddit had some great communities for parents, and I'm really hoping we can rebuild it here.

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  • main sh.itjust.works Main Community So.... what makes this server different? :)
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    The clean energy was the deciding factor for me, since virtually everything's accessible from any instance. There were some bumps around some communities not being found - I assume from rapid growth caused by the reddit exodus - but things are working smoothly now.

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    Piano And Keyboards pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%
    how long does it take to learn a song + process question

    How long does it take you to get from never seeing a sheet before to playing at the recommended tempo? Just wondering what's typical. It typically takes me several weeks at a minimum, with the caveats that I have little time for practice and am self-taught because I don't have money for a teacher. My process is this: practice each hand independently in chunks, bring each hand up to the 'normal' tempo, then put the hands together at sloooow tempo and gradually raise the tempo. The last part takes the longest. Does anyone have suggestions for improving my process?

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    asklemmy Asklemmy How do you typically spend your weekends?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Saturdays are for grocery shopping, extra long walks with the dog and my toddler, and various other chores: mowing the lawn, mopping the floors, laundry, etc.

    Sundays are for baking, practicing piano and in theory for relaxing. In practice I have issues with just stopping and relaxing.

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  • python Python Is learning programming worth it? Outside of a career, what can I do with programming?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    Interesting food for thought, thanks!

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    Python pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 95%
    Is learning programming worth it? Outside of a career, what can I do with programming?

    I learned a little bit of python back in college with the hope that it would give me a competitive edge in the field I hoped to enter. Lo and behold, I got a job in a different industry entirely and any knowledge of coding I once had became irrelevant. Would it be worth it to pick up my python textbook again and self-teach in my free time if I don't want to make a career of coding? What exactly can python be used to create?

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    asklemmy Asklemmy Reddit protesters: How are you spending the blackout?
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    I spent it hunting down a reddit alternative and browsing on lemmy.

    I'm not going back. Reddit will go downhill gradually as it tries to squeeze out value at the expense of the community, and that's not something I'm going to support it any way.

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  • loseit LoseIt: Lose the Fat Milk is so calorie dense, I stopped to drink coffee after measuring it all out
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  • pedantichedgehog pedantichedgehog 1 year ago 100%

    I'm doing something similar! I need milk and sugar to make coffee palatable but I'm gradually reducing the amounts of both.

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    Progress, not perfection (or, why I'll consider it a win if I'm still tracking calories at the end of this month)

    So I'm currently on my fifth or sixth attempt to lose weight. Historically, I've tracked my calorie intake for a few weeks or a few months, lost a few pounds, fallen off the wagon and gained it all back. There are a number of things going on this month that I'm choosing to participate in that are going to have to be cheat days or cheat meals. Without disclosing too many details, my workplace is holding an event where there's going to be a lot of free food. Another one is that I'll be traveling for work for a few days and I'll be eating out since I won't have access to a kitchen. *Progress, not perfection* is the mantra I've been repeating. I'm gonna want to stop counting calories on the work trip - a work trip was the hurdle that made me give on my last weight loss attempt. I'm trying to give myself some grace - it's okay if I gain some weight, because I can lose it again if I keep tracking my intake. Even if I don't limit what I eat at all on the trip and the other events, if I get back on the weight loss wagon that's still progress.

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