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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 10 hours ago 100%

    Exactly what happened in my case. I wish I jumped ship before all this played out

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 day ago 100%

    No plans yet, still getting my bearing. Never been laid off before. Right now I’m just focusing on getting my savings and stuff in order and making sure I have some runway. Other than that, find a new job of course

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 day ago 100%

    Just got laid off from MEGACORP on Monday. They did a big "restructure" so now I'm unemployed. As my homie comically said I have become the stereotypical "unemployed black man" archetype THE MAN fears.

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  • chapotraphouse chapotraphouse lizard people
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 day ago 100%

    They have millions and a loyal fanbase and it's still not enough for them. They have to poison them too. Imagine being that hollowed out.

    I think about this all the time. They have all the money they will ever need, and they do this with it?! I don't understand how they aren't just working out, taking care of their peoples (friends/family/organizations they care about/whatever), travelling, or just doing whatever the hell they want. If this is "whatever the hell you want" for them I can't imagine how utterly lifeless and devoid of joy or meaning they are. I truly can't imagine the idea of "branding™©"/"marketing™©" being the end goal for any actual human person.

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  • games games Hollowbody is a solid if rough homage to silent hill
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 day ago 100%

    Hollowbody looks great. Really looks like my favorite type of sci-fi horror where it's futuristic but it's not super hi-tech. I also love the very PS2 look. I still think turbo hyper graphics don't really add much and having lower level graphics doesn't really take anything away.

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 day ago 100%

    This "college" thing is not really geared towards how my brain works, but I'm doing my best.

    Your best is all you can do. Keep it up, you'll make it happen!

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 day ago 100%

    I always find it very strange that liberal vegans are essentially just health-conscious conservatives who are also kind of annoying. They don't care about human rights, animal rights, how their food is made, why it's made, all that jazz, they are quite literally "virtue signaling".

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  • chapotraphouse chapotraphouse Sex is hilarious
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 day ago 100%

    Physical intimacy in this economy? You want another person to touch your body? You get all the orgasms and value of their labor to get you there? Sounds pretty petty bourgeoise to me. How are you gonna be a comrade and still try and have sex? Nah man.

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 3 days ago 100%

    Ya always gotta make your move. You know they're the right one when they see you in your goofiest and still say "Yeah, I like this one".

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 3 days ago 100%

    Part of me thinks this is a rip of the "Zhuge Liang" story from the 48 Laws of Power. A lot of dorks have read that book, and one of the "laws" is "So much depends on Reputation — Guard it with your life". In the book they say a General played a lute in an unguarded city to prevent his foes from attacking. It's very lame. It's supposed to be some big bad lesson on power and how to use it. It's a very dumb story. I think a ton of writers think Robert Greene is worth reading. He isn't.

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  • fitness fitness The Strongest Man Alive Visited My Gym Today
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 4 days ago 100%

    He might actually have been heading to a competition now that I think of it, because he didn't even have the time to wipe the sweat off his benches.

    gulag In the Communist future, I will advocate for a minimum of 45 day gulag sentence for such a vile act gulag

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  • self_improvement Self Improvement Weekly Improvement Thread - Sep 15th
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 4 days ago 100%

    Moonlake is gonna be Chestlake in a few months.

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 4 days ago 100%

    I'm currently maintaining my various successes. I'm reading books, I'm lifting weights, I'm not wasting time on the internet, I'm actively working on developing my programming skills, I'm trying to "NETWORK™®©" (it's far harder to have a simple but genuine conversation with strangers these days, even at networking events, everyone is trying to boost their brand and shit), and in general all is well. I'm also reconnecting with my writing passion. I have been writing really bad short stories to help get the creative waters flowing from my brain to keyboard, still SUPER far from where I want to be but we are moving in the right direction. Slowly, but certainly moving.

    I hope all the Hexbear c/self_improvement continue to better themselves in every way they can. I really think that actively looking at yourself and becoming better for the sake of yourself is wonderful. Not for the market, not to "self-optimize", none of that shit, but purely for the sake of being better because you want to be. I think that's dope.

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  • videos videos What Does 'Gooning' Do to Your Brain?
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 5 days ago 100%

    hahaha

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  • videos videos pianist Bill Evans on the creative process and self-teaching (1966)
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 5 days ago 100%

    I kinda dig this. I really like hearing professionals/high level folks talk about how they think about why they do. It's always insightful.

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    Gulags but for self-imposed self-betterment.

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  • askchapo askchapo If you had to pick any American (living or dead) to be the head of a communist state, who would it be?
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  • chapotraphouse chapotraphouse American democracy be like
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 6 days ago 100%

    My politics aren't really on the ballot, however I really hate the idea that if you vote for something you believe in you're somehow doing democracy wrong. I have never understood the vote shaming rhetoric (especially for people voting for Green party or PSL or anything outside of the primary binary). If you vote for the things you want, you're doing democracy correctly. Even if you are voting for things I don't like or hate, if you and your stupid ass are voting for your stupid ass values, you're technically doing democracy correctly (and stupidly).

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  • chapotraphouse chapotraphouse It is another 911 so I'm reminding you to cash in for your discount at 🚊
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    $15 for a D-tier sandwich?!?! Does that at include a chip and a drink? This is truly Brandon’s America.

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    i-cant

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  • food food [Not the Onion] Oreo Coke
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 96%

    I get why they hate us now. I get it. Like ya I see this image and I'm instantly filled with rage against western decadence and depravity. For sure.

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    When people say "slop" I truly do think of Subway. They are charging $10 for the sub? Not even as a combo these days? I'm so glad I don't go to out to eat.

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  • movies movies Peter Cushing’s Star Wars resurrection at centre of legal battle; Disney has been sued for using Peter Cushing's likeness in #RogueOne
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    "You're afraid of necromancy? Don't you know that Necromancy creates jobs?" - Byron BuyYourBones, CEO of ARISEN a silicon valley start up that uses AI and Machine Learning to create digital avatars of your loved ones and then forces them to work as jobs as on-demand Chatbots for MEGACORP customer services

    EDIT: I should have called it AI-RISEN, the marketing suits would never have the courage to call it something that doesn't overtly name check whatever trendy tech is poppin'.

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  • movies movies Peter Cushing’s Star Wars resurrection at centre of legal battle; Disney has been sued for using Peter Cushing's likeness in #RogueOne
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    I'm no legal scholar but all of human history has been anti-necromancy. I would assume this one of the few truly "human nature" traits. I would argue that digital necromancy is bad.

    Cant to see the future corporate wars over who owns the rights to Keanu Reeves likeness

    August 20, 2023.

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  • games games You can pick one, street mage. Choose wisely.
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    Banger! susie-dance

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    askchapo askchapo Is it cringe that I unironically love vaporwave aesthetic?
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    Ever notice how many bazingas fantasize about Cameron's Avatar in a "kill the furries loot the resources while giving pretentious speeches about humanity fuck yeah" sort of way?

    Bro, I grind my teeth into dust thinking about these fuckin' losers. peppino-angry

    The "punk" of sci-fi and fantasy is lost and wasted on these ghouls. It's so frustrating that Oligarchs were fuckin' dorks in their youth and it's worst yet all their little sicko-phants are dorks too. Bazinga shit indeed man. I hate it so much.

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    It's really a bummer that so much of the web's promise is not only lost, but also tarnished by folks who only know the net to be a walled gardens and silos.. "the Internet wasn't a group of five websites, each consisting of screenshots of text from the other four" as the saying goes. Lost Futures are a heallva drug man. Wish I think is the point of Vaporwave right? The sounds of a nostalgia that never was that expected a future that would never be? Something like that.

    Regardless, it is our empty mall. Ours to make.

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    Vaporwave is a great "drone" music too. I love using it for blocking out the world. It can send me to a fictional cyberspace and helps me focus. A lot of my programming is done with Vaporwave in my headphones programming-communism

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    This west is an empty mall, and we're all in it together.

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    I really hate how much power and sway energy industry has. They can literally poison us, and we have to happy to subsidize them while they do it.

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  • news news Almost 1 in 4 millennials and Gen Z-ers say they won't have kids due to finances
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    I feel like 96% of things that 1 in 4 millennials and Gen Z-ers won't do is due to finances.

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 week ago 100%

    I wrote about 30 pages in the last 30 days. I’m writing an Afro-space-adventure-sci-fi thing and I’m really proud I managed to stay consistent. I don’t know or care if it’s good or even narratively connected. I have written 30 pages and that means I’m being a writer.

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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 weeks ago 100%

    I'm running, i'm lifting, I'm reading, I'm coding, and staying in good spirits. I don't have a detailed report but all of my personal indicators are green with trajectories are upward.

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  • comics Comics Classic graphic novel Palestine by Joe Sacco is back in stock
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 weeks ago 100%

    going to put an order in at my library on monday!

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    Personally i would love to see Hollywood totally miss the mark (as they always do) and miscast Kim . Someone like a Ma Dong-seok, or some other buff dude. Just a cursed big and burly Kim. de-physical-instrument

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  • movies movies Beetlejuice Beetlejuice Is a Sweetly Satirical Delight
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  • LGOrcStreetSamurai LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 weeks ago 100%

    Like, Alien: Romulus at least had some decent bones to it, even if it gets weighed down by trying to connect itself to the rest of the films

    That's exactly how I felt about it. It felt like a solid sci-fi film that had the unfortunate burden of having to be a "franchise sci-fi film".

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    My favorite fantasy rule/trope, the dripp-ier the hat, the better the magician.

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    fitness LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 weeks ago 100%
    A positive reminder to everyone trying to level up their fitness, "trust the process"

    This kind of a public self-reminder, but I just want everyone to remember that fitness is literally a journey. It may not feel like to today or tomorrow, hell not even next month, but you're going to see positive changes and improvement. I mean this in the least "hustle culture" way, but keep grinding everyone.

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    chat LGOrcStreetSamurai 3 weeks ago 100%
    Being Alive is Too Expensive - Price Gouging, Greed, Inflation whatever you call it is too damn high

    After doing my budgeting for the upcoming month I was pretty saddened by how little my income seems to cover these days. ![internet-delenda-est](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/20bb5a59-1046-454c-b9be-99e963c37149.png "emoji internet-delenda-est") . I was curious and checked the existing inflation. It's not looking good. It's insane to me that over the last four years the cost of living has gone up approximately 22%. I think four years is a good period to examine, as whenever I hear "inflation is going down actually, it's gone down 2.9% since July! We are in a "cooling" period" ![actually](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/60413ac7-ae02-4fcd-a644-f864e388e98f.png "emoji actually") " those people are usually referring to like maybe six month period at best. Also shut your dork-ass up man. I checked a couple of different sites, some newspaper, some official US Government sites, and an economics site I'm like 96% certain some evil GOP-backed SuperPAC probably funds and they all seemed to say the same thing. ![](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/3da6b75e-9c4b-4350-8377-ca7a6e046388.png) ![](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/6f45bb64-b85b-49a4-9118-9ad3e8166429.png) ![](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/fa58c930-ee5f-45c2-9ddb-8f6c9216fb25.png) I'm not an economics guy, but one thing I have a vague understanding of is stuff like the Vampires and their ghouls thought COVID-19 conditions would extend forever. I'm not exactly sure of what they did or the mechanisms behind it, but it seems uniquely bad to have everyone's paying power reduced by ~22% (that's numbers probably higher for people who already in a bad spot). I'm sure it gets worse with interest rates and other fancy economic terms and devices I don't understand. What is a person to do? I'm not even talking about hip and cool leftists of various stripes like us who at least have a framework for understanding why this everything sucks ass, but what about regular "normal™©®" people? I don't understand how people are making it these days. People with kids or dependents, people with medical needs for themselves or loved one, or people with any real complications in life? Just regular people trying to have a decent and upright life, how they supposed to make it man? I think about my younger cousins who are graduating high school or are in college right now and I think how are supposed to even get started? How are people supposed to survive let alone thrive, when they have 1/4 less than they did four years ago? Also they didn't have enough four years ago to be frank. I'm also sure that this was like a zillion times worse for people nations under US sanctions, as I while I'm a US citizen I don't want to think we are the only people who exists, cause that's not a very cash-money thing to do. Like what the fuck? I'm not on some doomer-shit, more so on that "How do i find optimism in these dire times"-shit.

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    I just watched "Vampire Hunter D", Need more old-school animated film recommendations of any sort.

    I just watched "Vampire Hunter D" for the first time. It rules, I can also see its influence in a lot of other anime, scifi, and other cool nerd shit. It's really a shame I have never sat down and watched it until now. It fuckin' rips!. I need more animated films of that era that aren't made for the selling of toys. Doesn't have to be anime but really any sort of sleeper/underrated animated films from the 80s and 90s. I need more animated cinema.

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    technology LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 months ago 100%
    What's the MEGACORP "meta" behind needing an account to view the content on a site

    What's the mindset behind forcing a user to create an account to view the media on a page? For example an artist I like posts their art on Instagram and Twitter but I can't look at it unless I create an account. What's the dumb corporate rationale behind this? I have seen this on so many sites you can't even see what's there without an account? Doesn't it just scare users away? I know it certainly does for me. If I have to log in just to view a page I don't want to view the page.

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    urbanism LGOrcStreetSamurai 3 months ago 100%
    Venerate The Noble Public Transportation Operators

    They are objectively on the highest of tier public workers. If you make a bracket of public worker they are automatic S-tier

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    gamedev LGOrcStreetSamurai 4 months ago 100%
    I finally finished John Romero book, it's a good read! romero.com

    I'd really recommend it to anyone interested in the super early days of PC gaming. John Romero has a rather interesting tale, there is a lot of pathos surprisingly. Romero is one of the few katz I think is humble enough to actually talk about his flaws and shortcomings rather openly. I learned a lot about the 90's, game development, and was kinda inspired in a weird way. I was pretty lucky my library had a copy.

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    chat LGOrcStreetSamurai 5 months ago 100%
    Helped an acquaintance apply for unemployment, the first link on the page was "report fraud"

    Not even a "Start Here", "Locations", or something super basic like that. They really want you to deputize yourself and the local "Big Brother" super snitch. ![lenin-rage](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/82d63ee5-dd75-42a8-ac03-0edd7178eafd.png "emoji lenin-rage") It really got me heated ![lenin-rage](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/82d63ee5-dd75-42a8-ac03-0edd7178eafd.png "emoji lenin-rage") , slamming away on the keyboard helping a less then tech-savvy person input their information and upload their documents. At the very least I think I got them squared away, and helping others is cool. The supposed vigilance against "Welfare queens" is so goddamn stupid. If we really actually wanted to protect local and state budgets, we would y'know at the very least do something about tax avoidance/evasion. Of course this isn't about budgets at all, just making public services as punitive as possible. The bandits of Neoliberalism attempting to coarse people into the workforce while simultaneously robbing the public wealth. It just gets me so mad, katz are out here struggling and even trying to do the "right thing" and they are "supposed to do" and we go and it so fuckin' difficult to do so. Be sure to check out the c/mutal_aid channel to help out some strangers, cause I'm pretty damn sure their local government isn't gonna do it.

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    askchapo LGOrcStreetSamurai 5 months ago 100%
    Why do college educated America people hate American college students?

    This is a genuine question. (Please pardon spelling or grammar mistakes I typed in a meeting at work. A meeting on a Sunday morning. Fuck work) I know that college students can be “annoying” but I have noticed that everyone seems to hate college students. From conservative college educated business vampires and ghouls, to college educated liberal rainbow/pink/pro-black capitalism types. Even many online progressives (not sure what that term even means anymore) as well college dropout “dirtbag leftists” (I don’t know if that term is still in use, I’m not on Twitter and I don’t even listen to Chapo anymore) say that college is stupid. . Which just so odd because while I agree there is a ton to critique about higher education and academia as a whole it just seems to dismissive and weird to dunk on students for being students. It seems to me that most people seem to Make a caricature of the college student. Everyone who was college educated (especially liberals) seem to make their college education to be some halcyon golden age but now it’s all fallen apart. Those people seem to believe college is just young adult daycare now but was some rigorous training facility for the leaders of the world in past. It seems to me at least this is a weird expression of the US hated of youth and youth culture but also a weirdly kinda fetishists it simultaneously. My theory is we collectively dunk on college kids because we hate ourselves and who we have become and see them using their youth to do youth stuff. Exploring and expressing themselves in a way were unable or perhaps unwilling to do in somewhat similar conditions. But that’s just a baseless theory, I got my degree in STEM not in humanities/social sciences. Real talk venerate the humble humanities and social sciences majors. while their degrees are also used for evil like everyone else’s they at least don’t have a “start-up” they are pitching. When I got my undergrad in 2017 at state university most of the katz I knew were working +30 hours a week and/or living with mom and dad and still in crippling debt. Now that I’m returning to get my master’s degree (part-time to be fair but I do into a campus for the night classes) also at a state university I’m still seeing the same thing. A lot of these young people are working, doing education as well as trying to become adult. It’s a lot, and honestly i empathize them. They are playing a rigged game and it sucks so many of them take it so personally, it’s a lot pressure to put on a younger person. I don’t know why the pop-culture narrative is that everyone who goes to school is a “fail child” or some trust fund kid. I met a few in my here and there while at school my first time but was mostly just regular people of all types trying to get a degree, though maybe I was in the minority as I was (and still am) a square. All that to say why do we hate college kids? Why do we think they are all “blue hair baristas” or whatever other current derogatory pejorative is. It just seems really stupid to me that we dunk on young people for doing what we tell them to do. The whole cultural narrative is “go to college, have fun, make friends, get a good job” but they seem to only care about the last part. It’s not like their a lot of alternative pathways for them to try, it just seems so odd to me

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    movies LGOrcStreetSamurai 6 months ago 100%
    Borderlands - But Like Why though? variety.com

    I love the games (the Telltale games were peak), and I actually like like most of the individual members of the cast (aside from Kevin Hart, dude just is plainly unfunny to me), and I think Eli Roth can do a decent job behind the camera. However I know most certainly this will be a product/marketing platform in the shape of a movie. Is the cinema landscape this bleak these days? Movie magic is being wasted on this slop. Goddamn.

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    emoji LGOrcStreetSamurai 7 months ago 100%
    Respectfully For Toriyama-Sensi

    ![](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/52ed756c-a758-4df1-a90b-8c4f09d38995.png)

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    em_poc LGOrcStreetSamurai 7 months ago 100%
    The Federal Crime Bill & African-American Community - 1994 https://www.c-span.org/video/?53733-1/crime-legislation=

    It's very frustrating watching knowing that quite literally everything bad that they said would happen in this hearing does in fact happen. They even directly point out that more cops will not reduce crime. I know 1994 and 2024 are two radically different time periods but goddamn. This bill has was fundamental to the expansion of the carceral and surveillance state. It's a really long watch but I think it's worth watching. It's very long and dry and boring, but it's very insightful. I have seen clips of this C-SPAN broadcast in many different video political essays and such and never have I seen it in its entirety. I think about this not just as it's an election year, or not even really about the DNC; Instead, I think about this is respect to all of the people who were hurt when they cranked up the police machine to 11. ( Just a reminder this isn't just a POC issue either. "Funny fact about a cage, they're never built for just one group...")

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    chat LGOrcStreetSamurai 7 months ago 100%
    "Medicare For All"/Single Payer Healthcare is still worth advocating for, it's a good policy.

    I recently had the displeasure of going to the doctor's office. Totally routine check-up. No aches or pains, no fever, nothing particularly ailing me at the moment. I just try to go the doctor twice a year because I have "good insurance™©®" through my employer. The amount of legwork I had to do just see a doctor was awful. I found doctors that were covered but their practice was not. I found a clinic in my area that the doctor's were covered but the labs they sent their results to were not. Having to navigate through websites and compare them against my insurance coverage felt like I was trying to min-max a character sheet in an RPG. I can only imagine this being 9999% worse if I needed some real deal medical care. I eventually found a clinic, doctor, and lab trio that worked with my insurance through their website. I drove (thanks American Car Culture) to the doctor's office I kid you not, I spent MORE time in the lobby talking to the nice dude at the desk then I did with the doctor lady. Some clinic aids took my blood pressure and weight and stuff, but I spoke to the doctor-person about seven minutes before they bounced. Again, I know this is just a check-up but damn, seven minutes of face-to-face with a healthcare professional seems pretty bad. I spent maybe two hours doing all this legwork for seven minutes of actual care. I don't blame the doctor-lady either, I'm sure she was stacked to her eyeballs with papers and forms and other patients. This system is so fuckin' wack. I want to live in a world, where I pay my taxes and I get healthcare (and I want to know my taxes go to covering other people, not the endless war machine). All the shit in life that doesn't actually matter is pretty frictionless and easy, but something as important getting medical care is a goddamn dungeon crawl. There is so much obfuscation between patients and doctors it's absurd. Also reminder, private insurance is forever and always a business venture. Maximizing shareholder value is the ONLY goal of a business. Also the amount of bullshit jobs ![graeber](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/f076c097-7efa-4348-9913-0dfcf5ee573a.png "emoji graeber") in MEGACORPS is absurd. They are tons and tons of layers of obstructions built into these companies by design. They even hire folks whose role is to find reason to deny claims. Just really rotten stuff. I want single payer healthcare because it's a rational and simple system. I want to go a clinic and get care. That simple. I want medical professionals to make choices about what sort of care i need, not some ghoul an a phantom office in Delaware. It's a real actually existing policy that would make people's lives better. I know we live belly of capitalism, and the DNC and RNC are lapdogs for these companies but fuck I will still want it. TL;DR - Private Insurance does nothing but get in the way. Insurance companies hinders healthcare providers ability to provide their services, and hinders people from getting the care they need. For-profit private health insurances are fundamentally bad.

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    ttrpg LGOrcStreetSamurai 8 months ago 100%
    Jennell Jaquays Memorial Game Jam itch.io

    Jennell Jaquays is a unsung game developer. She has a really rich history in games and design. Itchio had a game jam in her honor. Salute to a real one 🏳️‍⚧️ [Check out her website. It's old-school and good.](http://www.jaquays.com/)

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    technology LGOrcStreetSamurai 8 months ago 100%
    Clickbait Remover For YouTube - A small Firefox extension to make YouTube browsing slightly better. addons.mozilla.org

    I hate the current YouTube thumbnail meta. I found this extension and it just takes a frame from the content of the video and displays that. I believe that is fair and more representative of the video. I have been using this extension for a while and I find myself paying more attention to the names of creator and then considering if I want to watch the video; rather than being enticed by some intentionally inflammatory image. I find it just make YouTube more enjoy in combination with [Ublock Origin](https://ublockorigin.com/) and [YouTube Search Fixer](https://phoennix.gitlab.io/youtubesearchfix/). Just wanted to share this extension with any Hexbears who aren't liking YouTube's thumbnail arms race of increasingly distracting images. I didn't know if I should have put this in c/videos or c/technology. I rolled a D6 and odds was c/videos and evens c/technology. I rolled a two. ![](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/5822aaed-c947-4476-a48a-fc7ef08c1fa6.png)

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    fitness LGOrcStreetSamurai 9 months ago 100%
    Getting at least 10K steps every day has utterly supercharged my fat loss, it may be help for you too!

    It can be time consuming due to the sheer length and duration, but I have found fat falling off in the places I have most issues (lower abdomen, chest, and back). It's free, it's super chill, and I have found it clearing my mind too. In combination with more intense regime, I think it is a a necessary supplemental exercise. I think walking outside is probably better (it feels more natural to me at least), but just a plain ol' treadmill or other cardio machine will probably get those steps up. Its super low-impact, easy, and do-able. I'm dropping weight and I'm finding my brain rebooting in some places as well. It's overall super great and I encourage every Hexbear to increase their step count. ![bridget-yoyo-walk](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/f7fc22c1-59f0-41e1-b0c6-ac73388ab2c5.gif "emoji bridget-yoyo-walk")

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    news LGOrcStreetSamurai 11 months ago 100%
    House approves nearly $14.5 billion in military aid for Israel. apnews.com

    America can't build houses. America can't fix roads, bridges, dams, pipes, or power grids. America can't provide high quality education for students of all ages and stages. America can't build libraries and parks. America can't provide medical care to all citizens. America can't provide childcare. America can't support public arts or media. America can't provide public transportation. American can't feed the hungry. America can't better the lives of its people. America is powerless to do anything, other than expand the military industrial complex. $14.5 billion is some COVID-19 level wealth extraction from working people. American oligarchs and plutocrats stole all our collective wealth yet again. ![guts-rage](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/3a5b2559-0b71-445c-874f-0c384d71c5be.png "emoji guts-rage")

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    games LGOrcStreetSamurai 11 months ago 100%
    Games For Gaza through Itch. https://itch.io/b/2120/games-for-gaza

    If you're overwhelmed by the bundle try to [use this site to help find games for you](https://randombundlegame.com/). Support a real and meaningful charity and play games.

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    anarchism LGOrcStreetSamurai 11 months ago 100%
    In Praise of Idleness is a great read or listen theanarchistlibrary.org

    Remember you deserve to be idle. You should be able to do things for their own sake.

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    anime LGOrcStreetSamurai 11 months ago 100%
    Tales Of Alethrion is I think one of the best online animations out there www.talesofalethrion.com

    Not exactly anime, but I still think this is one of the best animations online.

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    technology LGOrcStreetSamurai 12 months ago 100%
    Digital Communism Meets Piracy, Shadow Libraries have reignited my love of learning

    I have been teaching myself more programming stuff for c/gamedev over the last several weeks as my ambition is to make a using Godot to share with people. Just making a game for the sake of trying my hand at a creative work, no real "profit motive" just wanna make a thing ![programming-communism](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/a4725948-982f-4bcb-82f4-4f1d53b5173d.png "emoji programming-communism"). However, but I was feeling like I wanted to get back into the old-school C++ programming rather than using a game engine and was looking for a primer as it's been a bit since I have done it. In my quest I discovered [Academic Torrents](https://academictorrents.com/), I found a ton of great computer science courses and the last weakened synapses of academic rigor in my internet poisoned brain to fire once again. I have always been for open-information (most just downloading .pdf files of textbooks during college) and stuff but I didn't really know about the concept of a [Shadow Library](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shadow_library). I'm finding myself interested in just learning more computer nerd shit for the sake of learning. I like the idea I have access to pretty much every computer science department that has a webcam and torrent link, I think that's good. This idea applies beyond not just for tech stuff of course, but just about anything. I think it's really weird that knowledge creation is soloed away behind nations, institutions, and IP laws. Everyone everywhere should have access to knowledge for the sake of knowledge. I don't know much about the actual process of knowledge creation but the created knowledge itself should be assessable to everyone in a library sense. Knowledge is one basic things that makes us human and should be free and open to everyone. Discovering a website reminded that learning is just cool and worth doing for the sake doing (if that's your thing of course, if you don't wanna learn that should be considered cool too). The promise of the internet still exists outside the walled gardens and I think that's pretty dope. So long as people wanna learn I'm glad that these sorts of Shadow libraries are there to help people. Also support your actual local library. Light and Shadow Libraries are cool and lefty and good.

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    chat LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 year ago 100%
    The only thing worse than not having a job is looking for a job.

    Vent your rage and or employment woes. I am having a bad time looking for a job as an employed keyboard-jockie. Hate my current job can’t find another. The employment process sucks, the ghosting sucks, the endless automations and inhuman interactions just to find a job. The quantification of every part of the job process is bonkers. Reading all of this fluffy nondescript job profiles is a job in and of itself The meta-game of having to “optimize” your resume to be read by an A.I. or to having to use an A.I. for the application itself just sucks. All this work for an entry to middle level job that barely covers your bills is just soul draining. All these employers want you to have 2-5 years experience and a masters degree for a starter position. It’s all just terrible. It feels like “finding a job” is a skill in and of itself in a way it should not be. “Job hunting” is also a deeply solo thing, even using your professional and/or social network pits you against the “The Market”. It sucks so much. “The Market” is so bad at everything. We could all more easily organize work and finding work if we all weren’t alienated independent nodes all forced into battle. Yet another reason planning and democratic processes are better than this weird tyranny of “the free market”. Jump in this thread and be mad with me. Big mad.

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    marxism LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 year ago 100%
    Giving name to the thing the reason your job sucks: Fordism and Post-Fordism

    I recently discovered these two terms, [Fordism](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fordism) and [Post-Fordism](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-Fordism). I have recently been on the David Graeber tip,[![graeber](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/f076c097-7efa-4348-9913-0dfcf5ee573a.png "emoji graeber"), [re-reading Bullshit Jobs and some of his other essays on the Anarchist library](https://theanarchistlibrary.org/category/author/david-graeber). Dude was and still is 420% right about modern work and how/why it sucks, however I didn't really have that sort of deeper theory based framework of understanding why it sucks and how it came to suck so much. I'm generally anti-work as the next leftie. However, I do think there is a lot of work that needs to be done and we should all do, but we should all not have to do it all the time for all of our lives. In general most jobs that need to be done can be done collectively or through a shared and equitable fashion. That said 93.7% of modern jobs don't needs to exist and the remain 6.3% of jobs could be radically re-imagined to be fairer and better for the worker. Reading about Fordism and Post-Fordism I'm really understanding that capital-M "Management" in just about every industry all want to see a workforce strongly resembles that of a factory churning out repeatable products. Everything a process, that can be measured, and repeated, and traced, even the works themselves become a collection processes. I'm also listening to a podcast on Gramsci ![gramsci-heh](https://www.hexbear.net/pictrs/image/0e94449e-4e87-4e87-b144-186119b539b0.png "emoji gramsci-heh") and learning more about a theorist I never knew about. While I knew of this sort of sentiment before I didn't really parse it through a Marxist lens until reading about it more thoroughly and experiencing it now that I'm "moving up" in my current bland MEGACORP job. I'm experiencing people around me trying to internalize this ideology in a weird modern way, like it's somehow "progressive™ ® © " to want to become a better cog. To self optimize your cog-y-ness, and to want to hyper specialize your cog-y-ness. The worst part of it all is that it's seen as "self-actualizing" and generally a good thing to want to turn yourself in to the cog. The manufactured desire of you wanting to debase yourself for your boss is just vile to me. I guess I just want to share his discovery, and prove yet again Marx was right.

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    music LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 year ago 92%
    I recently discovered [adult swim] has a music page. Check it out www.adultswim.com

    There are lots of great albums, some you can directly download. It's not super underground stuff or anything but it's also not generic industry approved or algorithm designed music either. Lot of it is pretty dope.

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    gamedev LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 year ago 100%
    Game Design Patterns - Practical website for general game programming and design patterns. http://gameprogrammingpatterns.com/

    I ordered the physical book and it’s just a keen source of knowledge.

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    chat LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 year ago 100%
    I'm still mad the East Palestine, Ohio rail disaster was swept under the rug by THE BIG MEDIA™ ® ©

    The rail companies are were clearly the "bad guys" and it was plain cut story about labor. Striking workers said this was gonna happen, and then it happened and the media did everything it could to cover the Rail-baron's asses. It was failure of regulation, a product of American lobbying also known as corruption in the rest of the world. It was just everything wrong with American industry and the media just did everything it could to get everyone to shut the fuck up about it. It's just one of those stories I don't think got enough conversation, coverage, and discourse. It was just plainly everything wrong with America resulting in literal death shroud over a working class community. Don't forget the lasting ecological impact of all the plants and animals that drink the water or share the life-force that was injected with death shroud chemicals. Also this was all totally avoidable if they stock buying back vampires just spent like .5% of their revenue to just update some of their hardware. Also the absolute pittance they offered the citizens of East Palestine should have have some [REDACTED] happen. The whole thing just shows the necrotic rot of capital in the modern age. The zombie looking CEOs just did the bare minimum and gave the smallest concession they could have avoid this and keep their money train going. It wasn't quite panama papers level but goddamn why did we stop talking about this catastrophic failure? The media probably realized all of this is neoliberalism made manifest. From top to bottom. The US department of transportation should have had done a Perp walk on these CEOs. Fuck this whole thing just makes mad. We all deserve so much better. (BTW I'm pro-train, pro-rail, pro-worker, pro-regulation, all that jazz. I'm just mad that some really real shit happened and America just shrugged and moved on) [The Wikipedia entry is surprisingly pretty decent. ](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2023_Ohio_train_derailment)

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    games LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 year ago 0%
    Complaining about games and advocating for better practices is dope. Be vocal against dark-patterns as much as you can. Don't be a gamer™®

    Preface - It's never cool to be mean to developers or the rando who is running an official social media account online. Be cool. One thing I will never understand about gaming and gamers™® is that they always seems to justify their own poor treatment. Worse yet they attack others for pointing out the way they are mistreated. Whenever I see good honest players point out that a system is predatory or designed in a plainly unfair way, other gamers™® will undoubtedly come in and defend that bad thing. It's so odd that gamers™® can min-max everything but can't seem to factor in the fact they are getting less than they used to. It's like digital inflation. Games are more costly in upfront costs, hardware cost, time costs, and yet are getting worse in general. I'm very much anti-battle pass/anti-season pass/anti-microtransaction all that sort of stuff. I'm old-school, just want to buy a thing and have the thing and have the thing be whole and complete. That said there are semi-decent ways to implement a system that is profitable for the vampire executives and also don't siphon every single coin players have. It's so weird to me that gamers™® not only keep buying into these systems but seem to defend them so vigorously online. From "Pay to Win" to weird obtuse purchasable currencies/resources to needlessly limited time rewards to create artificial scarcity (pre-order, in-game store "deals", general fear of missing out practices), all dark patterns make games worse. Gamers™® defend these things saying "I DoN'T HaVe tHiS PrObLeM. iT MuSt bE A SkIlL IsSuE!" or whatever dumb shit. Every dark pattern in modern gaming is making the games people play worse intentionally. People talk about the enshittification of internet all the time but gaming as a medium/hobby has been enshittifiying since the advent of Xbox LIVE. The worst part about it to me is seeing such vocal defense for it online (social media at large, game forums, comment sections of gaming news/articles). It's not just that sort of conceding "well what can't ya do?", it's more so this spirited "This is good actually, and you're not a REAL GAMER if you don't like this." For example a decent battle-pass (regardless of the game/genre) usually rewards players with enough in-game premium currency to buy the next one and maybe have enough left over for an item or two. That way it keeps you locked for longer and feeds into the habit forming design dark pattern we all hate. You're constantly having just enough premium currency to buy something, and topping off your balance is just a few extra coins if need be. Yes, people talk about the "whales" and "minnows" but even just the regular players and worse yet the gamers™® get a bad deal. Setting the fact this is a dark pattern aside (however I can't stress enough how mobile gaming's/casino gaming inspired dark patterns have made gaming worse), it's bonkers to me that gamers™® just say "VoTe wItH YoUr wAlLeT BrO!". They will say that or these sorts of things support the development of the game, knowing full well that that money isn't recycled and invested into the betterment of the game. It's just so strange to me that gaming of all things has grown worse in just about every way since 2000's and yet the online culture around it seems to take pride in it being so bad. It's so strange that gamers™® can datamine the most Ph.D level mathematical optimal way to play through a game before it's even released but can't seem to parse that games should respect them. Games should treat them better. Games should be better. ![only-good-gamer](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/6effadd8-a7aa-4d6e-bdad-60ae92055755.png "only-good-gamer"): "Wow this system sucks. We should either get more rewards faster or things shouldn't cost so much. I like this game but damn this system blows, and it probably doesn't have to. The developers should be better to us." ![very-intelligent](https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/611ff2af-7866-4241-91bc-b19c67cc1f4e.png "very-intelligent"): "If you don't like it don't play it. If it were bad it wouldn't be popular." My larger point is gamers™® are bad, gaming should be better, player != gamers™®. [P.S. Check out this Dark Patterns Site. It explains all of the shit that makes games worse in a nice bullet point format](https://www.darkpattern.games/)

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    games LGOrcStreetSamurai 1 year ago 100%
    Hexbear c/games community game bundle giveaway. Share your unwanted/unused keys with people who may want them.

    Hello c/games. I have some games I'd like to giveaway. They are of varying quality, and I would rather give them to people who will actually play them rather than letting them gather cyber dust in my digital library. Some of them are shovelware no doubt. Others, just not my type of game. Some are games pretty rad. That said I would like to giveaway to others. I would encourage you to compile a list of games you may have massed through various bundles you don't think you'd play and share them with others. Just spread a little joy to other people by giving away something you don't want to some who may very much want it. It's a win-win and we can all become big communism builders through the act of sharing. For simplicity's sake it'll be first come first serve. I simply ask you only ask for games that you want and will play. One per person to keep things fair. If the key doesn't work I apologize, I don't mean to swindle or mislead anyone. It may have expired or some other DRM related trickery. To protect against bots and webscrappers I'll be DM'ing the keys to comrades rather than posting publicly. - ~~A Story About My Uncle~~ - [Crossbow: Bloodnight](https://store.steampowered.com/app/1329540/CROSSBOW_Bloodnight/) - ~~Darksiders~~ - ~~Medal of Honor~~ - ~~Mirror's Edge~~ - [Neon Drive](https://store.steampowered.com/app/433910/Neon_Drive/) - [Panzer Corps + DLC](https://store.steampowered.com/app/1072040/Panzer_Corps_2/) - ~~Windward~~ - ~~Going Under~~ - [Robothorium: Cyberpunk Dungeon Crawler](https://store.steampowered.com/app/657090/Robothorium/) - [Forward to the Sky](https://store.steampowered.com/app/657090/Robothorium/) - [Hive Jump](https://store.steampowered.com/app/295670/Hive_Jump/) - [ICY: Frostbite Edition](https://store.steampowered.com/app/680480/ICY_Frostbite_Edition/) - [Insurgency](https://store.steampowered.com/app/222880/Insurgency/) - [Technobabylon](https://store.steampowered.com/app/307580/Technobabylon/) - [Hexcells Complete Pack](https://store.steampowered.com/app/265890/Hexcells/) - ~~Octodad: Dadliest Catch~~ - [A Fistful of Gun](https://store.steampowered.com/app/229810/A_Fistful_of_Gun/) - ~~NOT A HERO~~ - ~~Burnout Paradise: The Ultimate Box Steam Key~~ - [Offspring Fling](https://store.steampowered.com/app/211360/Offspring_Fling/) - [Shank 2](https://store.steampowered.com/app/102840/Shank_2/) - [Snapshot](https://store.steampowered.com/app/204220/Snapshot/) - [Closure](https://store.steampowered.com/app/72000/Closure)

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    ttrpg LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 years ago 100%
    Does anyone have any general frameworks for thinking how to subvert genre tropes and player expectations?

    I am running this “season” (in the TV sense not the video game sense) of my friend groups lasting TTRPG session. It’s sort of anthology in that we are wanna be creative types and we use the games to explore our storytelling abilities. None of them are particularly connected but there are some common themes throughout. We have been playing on and off since high-school. We have done one session of just about everything from classic D&D to modern stuff like Lancer and Mothership. However, Many of our adventure turn into a DBZ were we all get stronger items and Level up and fight a guy. I want to mix things up. I am Gamemaster this time around and I am running a campaign of vanilla “Spycraft” the D20 secret agent style game. I recently replayed “No One Lives for Ever” and I thought it did a great job satirizing but also indulging in the genre. I want to do something similar, I want to keep it tightly focused and without giving way to action movie just giving them bigger guns and stuff I was thinking of doing the same thing but taking back to a faux Civil War era with super spies and mildly future tech or maybe a reverse Saturday morning cartoon G.I. Joe where they play agents of a Cobra-like organization. Does anyone have any tips in general about how to think about breaking genre trends and making a more unique play experience for your friends?

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    menby LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 years ago 100%
    How to Man like a Leftist www.youtube.com

    I thought this video was great breakdown of the vile side of masculine/masculinity social media. Not a lot of new talking points particularly for Hexbears but still think it's a good video about many false prophets and wicked gospels. Stay on the path of the righteous leftist dude. [for the record I hate YouTube thumbnails so much]

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    bloomer LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 years ago 100%
    How has leftist thought/theory positively impacted your life?

    I think personally the big thing leftist thought has done for me is gave me the mental toolkit to unlearn the idea of “ meritocratic/meritocracy”. We don’t live in a remotely fair world and the idea it is in any sense fair and justice is disproven in just about every leftist text, thinker, speech, figure throughout history. We get some hints about it in religion text (Speaking as a Christian) but we don’t really see how to break it down outside of personal virtue and kindness (which are cool and good but not a scaleable solution). I really think it super dope that leftist thinking give you the tools to understand and see the Matrix we live. I also really like how it shows you ways of addressing it. What are things you think leftist thought has improve your life? Big or small?

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    chat LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 years ago 0%
    Am I old or is the "social" aspect of TWITCH.TV very off-putting.

    * *Before I begin I think Twitch is an almost unsuable website. The amount of ads is utterly bonkers. Even with things like uBlock Origin it's just still plastered with advertisements * * I love watching E-Sports on Twitch. Seeing the highest level turbo-nerds duke it out in games is a lot of fun and helps me understand better ways to play certain games. However there is another side of Twitch I fundamentally don't understand. I suppose I don't understand the whole "para-social" dynamic in general but it seems even further obfuscated on Twitch. I'm not even talking about the biggest streamers either. I have watched some people with 13 viewers play and the dialogue between chat and the player seems stunted and inhuman. It's all very odd to me. I'm not trying to make a generational critique at all; however it really seems like Twitch is really bad the social component of gaming/online culture. The site itself seems bad for both creators and viewers alike. I know YouTube has it's many problems but it at least it seems design to facilitate some communication and community building. Twitch just seems like website "Brought to you by BRAND-X , NEEDLESS AMAZON SERVICE, and PRODUCT_THAT_HAS_NOTHING_TO_DO_WITH_GAMING". I don't really see the appeal of Twitch outside of the very narrow display of "high-level" gaming. Could someone explain how it's created such an important digital space in the current walled gardens of the net?

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    menby LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 years ago 100%
    Men could geniunely benefit from the "Self-help™️©️®️" if it were applied to geinune self-betterment rather than material accquistion and domination

    My workplace has a ton of these "Rise & Grind™️©️®️" Sigma and Ligma mindset books all over the place. I read them from time to time to gaze into the dreaded and loathsome Manosphere and understand my enemy. The core of these books is a sort of bastardized self-actualization. I genuinely don't think becoming accountable to set of values and being active member in one's own life is a bad thing; in fact I think if they left it at that a lot of guys would be better for it. However, I find it to be uniquely corrupted by neoliberalism and capitalism, in that it twists and warps manhood into this ideal that demands the domination of everything and everyone around. It turns manhood into a zero-sum game. A lot of these books blogs websites do offer somewhat meaningful mental frameworks for “achievement” but I'm always questioned as to what end. much of it is a false myth of manhood and recapturing a masculinity that never existed which I feel uniquely disappoints men. Patriarchy leaves men particularly vulnerable to these sorts of traps and snares when they are feeling down and out. I do think it's good to strive and do your best, but that should never EVER come at the cost of someone else doing the same. If anything you should be helping others become their best too, so you two can be your best together and shine even brighter. I hate how the modern world has made being a dude about just being a dick with a bunch of stuff rather than being a good person. Discipline, steadfast commitment, pushing through failure, all that sort of stuff is great and good but not if it's just implemented to get a new shiny bauble or whatever. Capitalism really does hinder men's ability to live up their supposed values and virtues. We can’t be the mean we want to be with under capitalism, we can’t be the men we actually should be as along as capitalism is rules over us Being a great man should be defined by your ability actually live out manly virtues, not these fast food Mc-ideals of debasing yourself for some coin. A good dude is more than his ability to dominate. I don't know what my larger point is, but I'm just typing this at work cause they got me working on a Sunday and all these dumb books are lying around the "leadership" library. It's just so fuckin' corny.

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    menby LGOrcStreetSamurai 2 years ago 100%
    Why is the "I hate my wife lol" such a common comedic troupe? Especially from the Conservative anti-abortion types

    I have never understood this joke. Growing up I never heard my Pops say anything like that even jokingly (though he would often say she wouldn't let him buy dumb stuff but that was the extent of it). However it's super common in older media and culture and is still notice able in contemporary times. I even hear from guys around my age who in their late 20s to mid 30s in break room chats. I haven't noticed a national or race trend either, it seems to be from dudes of every background. Is marriage that soul crushing that you resent your partner? Is it a "pressure release valve" sorta thing about monogamy? Is it actually something people feel? Do guys feel trapped somehow or are just realizing they live unfulfilling lives and project that on to their partners? If that's the case it's kinda weird, like your wife is supposedly the love your life and I would assume you'd really like them. I remember hearing at lot at my Men's group at my church when I was an early teen. "Upstanding, moral, virtuous Christian men™️©️®️" just kinda openly saying stuff like and pretty much everyone saying "lmao same" (or the time appropriate equivalent). I see it a lot in movies too. Tons of films are about guys secretly pining for someone else or just resolved to live their lot with some they feel hinders them. I remember reading the book " [Bowling Alone](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bowling_Alone) " which lacked any real material analysis of social conditions but it mentioned that men's groups were guys would go to escape their marriage for a bit. While I understand it's important to have your own friends and social groups, the idea it's describe "escape" seems like it's an unpleasant space to be in. Has patriarchy created marriage into prison were men are both the jailed and jailor like it has for many other things in men's lives? Do dudes really loathe their partners this much?

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