AITA for bringing my babies and my dear sweet gran with me on an invasion?

I thought it would be nice. I told them that we're clearing lots of good elbow room for them to live in, and that all they had to do to keep it was look pretty

But now, these aggressive militants from the place we're invading are attacking us for no reason! They don't even refuse to attack the 100% of our hardish-fought territory that we've stuffed with babies and dear sweet grans!

Now hexbear trolls are acting like it's my fault that these babies and dear sweet grans are in danger. Wtf!