So people gave me some advice at one point. There's someone I'm talking to right now and we are both getting way too invested with each other.

We talked for 14 hours one day, not in one go, but throughout two seven hour conversations.

I have some treatment coming up that I really need to be focusing on before romance with this woman.

How do i get her off my mind?

Right now is not a good time... I need to take care of myself first before entering any sort of relationship.